Watch the Rachel Ray Show Wed. 2/4!

I will be in NYC next week taping the Rachel Ray Show! Wednesday, 2/4 is when the taping will be, and exact details of when it will air will be posted up by soon. Unfortunately as of right now they do not have an air date yet, but you’ll be the first to know as soon as we do. I will be giving an Online Dating profile Makeover to 1 lucky RR viewer, and will discuss the results of it during the show, as well as my expert tips, Do’s & Dont’s of Online Dating and how to maximize your online dating results & quality dates. Don’t miss it! In spirit of the show, for this week only (2/01-2/08) I will be offering my exclusive Online Dating Makeover – the same one that will be featured on Rachel Ray – for a special rate – nearly 50% off! Get the Rachel Ray Online Profile Makeover while it’s only $70.00 for this week only!

♦ I will also be on Good Morning America on Saturday morning, Feb. 7th! They have already taped it a few days ago, and I will be discussing how this recession and slowing economic times is affecting dating, relationships and marriages.

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5 Things Men should do to Charm a Woman!

Ok Guys, I’ve done the work for you and spent a LOT of time researching, interviewing, and testing. Coming right from the mouths of women, the following are things that we – they – seriously wished you would do for us. They seem so simple, yet most guys do not do them for one reason or another. But we want it, we crave it and we would be a hell of a lot more attracted to the rare guy who does do them. So BE that rare guy who stands out in a woman’s mind. Here’s Part I of How to Successfully Woo & Win over a Lady. Part II coming soon…

1.Spend more time creatively Courting her. Forget instant gratification and actually take the time to playfully and creatively pursue and court a woman like they used to, putting in effort and letting her know she is special and worthy of your time and imagination.

2.Demonstrate more Cultural Awareness & Intelligence: Sure you know the score of the last football game, but tune in more to the news and current events, read up on worldly concerns, and learn more about culture and interesting ideas so that you can mentally stimulate her too, which is a major turn-on for women.

3. Do Unexpected Things at Unexpected Times. Women love the mental stimulation that surprises bring, so give it to her – not just on Valentines Day but on random, unexpected days and times. Leave cute, romantic notes or surprises at unexpected times in places like her the windshield or purse. Contact me for more details on how to successfully charm a woman.

4. Demonstrate your Masculinity! Yes, many things have changed over the years, but a few things have stayed the same: Women don’t want a wishy-washy guy. They want a man to be able to take charge in situations, make fast decisions when called for, occasionally plan the dates and choose the entertainment for the night, walk on the outside of her, fix her car, squash bugs, call her rather than sending a wimpy text, and show them that you can protect and support them through your words and actions.

5.Spend more time on Sensual Foreplay. Guys, it’s not ALL about the end goal. You will find it to be much more enjoyable for both of you if you spend more time teasing and exciting her and creating that anticipation that she craves through physical and mental foreplay. Tease her throughout the day. Send her provacative text messages or emails. Leave hints around the house as to what dirty things you will do to her that night. Take it slow, and save her for dessert.

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AJs Playhouse on Channel 933, on 1/21 at 8:30!

Tune into AJ’s Playhouse on Channel 933, San Diego’s most popular morning radio show Wednesday 1/21 at about 8:30-40am to hear her regular dating segment. Tomorrow’s topic will be on what the opposite sex secretly wishes you would do when dating that would increase their attraction to you. Also, how to redefine concepts like Romance and Chivalry this Valentines season. Don’t miss it! DeAnna is a regular on the Playhouse and is on every 3rd Wednesday of the Month!

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Dynamic Singles Party postponed Due to RR

Hi all- so due to my short-notice appearance on the Rachel Ray show, I’m having to fly to NYC tomorrow 2/3, which was originally going to be the date of the Dynamic Singles party; so unfortunately I’m having to post-pone the party. It looks like it will have to be next Tuesday instead but I will post up the exact date on Thursday when I return from NY. Sorry for the inconvenience! But Check out the Valentines Day singles & fashion party below.

Tickets: $10 Pre-pay/$15 at the door. I strongly encourage you to reserve your spot Pre-pay online now!

Sneak Preview of the other Upcoming Events

♦ Saturday, February 14th, 6:30-10+:  Single & Fabulous Valentines Party! This is the place to BE on Valentines if you’re single, fabulous, and wanting to meet other fabulous singles & have a smashing time! Party will take place at SIN Nightclub Downtown SD, and will consist of a shopping event and $5 drink specials while you shop (LOTS of designer goodies & swag) plus a designer fashion show put on by BMC Style & GO La Jolla,  Dating tips from me, dancing, and a good time for everyone. Pre-sale tickets are only $5, and $10 at the door. Contact me for tickets.

♦ Thursday, February 19th, 7:30-9:30: Speed-dating Party at the ONYX Room!

♦ Tuesday, March 10th, 7-9pm: Fabulous 50+ Mixer! Fabulous singles 50 and up. Location TBD. $15

♦ Monday, March 16th, 7-9pm: Dynamic Professionals! Ages 25-40 Speed-Dating AND Speed-Networking for the business-minded professional singles. $20

Others to be Scheduled:

• Software Singles! IT and Software Industry singles mixer
• Spiritual/Conscious Singles Mixer
• Catholic Singles Mixers
• GREEN Singles Mixers
• Elite Professional Singles Mixers
• Charitable Singles Mixers
• Gay Singles Mixers
• Ladies Wine & Girl Chat nights
• Champagne & Cigar Nights
• …and more.

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Dynamic Singles Launch Party!

Launch party of my new singles group, Dynamic Singles! 1/27 from 7-9pm, location still TBD. Men- bring or wear a TIE! And Ladies – wear brightly colored shoes/heels! I won’t say why till you get there, but they will help to break the ice. For this party the ages will be across the board, so 25-60 or higher, just wanted everyone there to meet and mingle and introduce the Dynamic Singles concept. $10 which will include your first drink, and appetizers. It’s going to be a blast.

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KGO Radio Morning News in SF 1/9 7:45

DeAnna will be interviewed on the KGO Radio Morning News show in San Fran with anchors Ed Baxtor and Jennifer Jones at about 7:45 am! She will be discussing how “Laid Off Singles don’t have to Lay Off Dating” – creative ways for unemployed singles to still keep dating during the recession. Check it out.

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How do I get Guys to Stop Dumping Me?

Q: Dear DeAnna,

How do I get guys to stop dumping me or ditching me for someone else? I’m 31, are guys ever going to grow up? Please help, I want to find someone to marry soon and it seems like every guy I’m interested in ends up ditching me.

Sincerely, Catharine

A: Dear Catharine,

First of all, half your problem lies right there in your question. How do you stop “getting guys” to dump or ditch you? You are placing all the power–and the blame–in the guys’ hands. You need to realize that half the issue and responsibility  actually lies in you. If this has happened to you two times or more, this is not a mere coincidence; you are either subconsciously or consciously choosing men who are unavailable, disrespectful, or who otherwise do not treat you how you deserve, you may be attracting those types of men with your behavior, or lastly, you may be doing something, or a number of things, to turn them off and cause them to run or lose interest. You’ve really got to take a hard look at where you are meeting these men, and what kinds of traits they all have in common. By isolating those common traits you can get a clearer picture of what kind of guy to stay away from in the future and what red flags to look out for. Then look within yourself. Are there are common patterns or behaviors, or things that you’ve done with all of these guys that may have led to them deciding to ditch you? Did you perhaps come on too strong, act jealous, needy or too available too soon? Did you sleep with them within the first 5 dates or did you wait until you were exclusive with them? These types of behaviors can all send men running. Put all these elements together and you should be able to figure it out. Good luck,

DeAnna

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Hear me Speak @ the Retreat to Wellness Fair!1/09

Go into the New Year with a fresh start and a more balanced, rejuvinated, prepared and successful you! Come to the Retreat to Wellness Fair from Friday, 1/09 till Sunday 1/11, come all 3 days, come 2 days or just stop by for 1, and enjoy 7 amazing presenters, authors Life Coaches from different specialities of health, wellness, spiritual health, etc. give brilliant presentations on how to overcome your roadblocks, get “unstuck” and achieve total wellness, balance and success in all the different areas of your life. I am one of the presenters and I will be presenting on Saturday morning (1/10) from 9-11am on how to overcome your hidden roadblocks in your love life and achive total success in your personal relationships, dating and love life. So come check me out! Let this be the year to make it happen and finally accomplish all that you want to. This 3-day seminar will get you going into the new year feeling great. If interested please contact me to purchase tickets to this amazing event; limited tickets left so purchase asap!

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Top 5 Excuses for NOT Hiring a Dating Coach!

The Top 5 Excuses for not getting a Dating Coach

…Any of these sound familiar?

1. “I just met someone that looks promising, so I don’t think I’ll be needing coaching after all.” Ok listen, the fact that you met someone new is actually all the more reason why you should go through with coaching. Because it obviously hasn’t worked out in the past, and it’s yielded the same results, so what’s going to change this time around? Sure you’ve “got a fish,” so you’ll eat for about one day. Great. See you back in my office next week when it doesn’t work out. But only when you’ve been taught how to “fish” will you be able to “eat” –aka date successfully–for life.
2. “I think I’ll just see if I can work it out on my own.” Ok…but you’ve been doing this all along. And has it gotten you anywhere? If you’ve done what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. And the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Clearly, whatever you’ve been trying already has not been working. So it’s counterintuitive to think that waiting even longer before you take any action will get you anywhere (all you’ll gain from ‘waiting it out’ will be more gray hair).

3. “I don’t have the money for it right now…” Yes we are living in a crappy economy where times are pretty rough, but almost everyone has at least some extra money to spend a month, which is about the price of 2 nights out or two bad dates that go nowhere. So why don’t you use it to invest in yourself and your happiness for a change.

4. “But I don’t REALLY need it.” …Oh, really? Well then how did you get here in the first place if you weren’t looking for it?
5. “I can just read self-help books or have my friends & family give me advice, can’t I?”
Sure you can seek the advice of friends or family members, but where has that gotten you in the past? And isn’t the advice slanted because they are biased? It’s very difficult to actually retain the information in self-help books, because you have no one to show you how to apply it. The value that you’ll gain is incomparable to the value of a personal Coach working one-on-one with you to bring everything to life. It would be like learning a foreign subject with no instructor, only a manual.

So stop procrastinating on your love life. Ring in 2009 with a new and improved you and finally see some results in your dating and love life! Contact me today to set upa free phone consultation so I can help you explore your options. And Happy New Year!

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Watch The San Diego Living Show 01/06!

DeAnna will be on the San Diego Living Show (on the CW Channel 6) on Tuesday, 01/06 from 9-10am, discussing New Years Dating Resolutions and what the best methods of dating are for different personality types! Don’t Miss it.

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