DeAnna Lorraine the Dating Coach

Win a Free Gift when you post in my Dating Forum

New Online Dating Forum – Contest: So I just launched my new Online Dating Forum, and it needs some activity to get it going! So to encourage people to start posting questions, starting new topics of discussions, and answering other peoples’ questions, I’m going to be giving away gifts!

So here are the details: Go to the Dating Forum, Create a Profile (just takes a few seconds; you can even create an Avatar), then go ahead and post some questions up, start new forums or discussions, or add on to other peoples’ discussions. It’s a great way to connect with other members and share ideas, and also to get on-the-spot answers to your dating dilemmas!

In addition, I will be in the Forum LIVE and active every Thursday – all day beginning at 9:00 am and ending at 6:00pmanswering your questions. And, from 4:30pm-5:30pm (PST)I will actually be broadcasting my Internet Radio Show (The Dating Coach Confessional) live, so you’ll be able to see me & ask me questions on the air at that time.

Now here’s how the points work: Every time you answer someone’s question or give your two cents, you earn 1 point. Every time you post a question, you earn 1 point. Every other Friday I will be doing a count.

The Member with the most points will win a free gift and be announced that Friday (starting next Friday). You’ll either win a Free Online Dating Profile Review, a Free e-Book, or a Free 30-minute Dating Strategy Coaching Session!

But I won’t count people who just post all questions and never answer add to any. Also, please do not post bogus questions or spam, I won’t count those either. Keep the questions relatively simple rather than a few paragraphs so it’s simple for people (and myself) to answer them.

Have fun and I look forward to seeing your questions and topics! Ask away.

-DeAnna

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Sign up for my “45-Day Dating Challenge”!

_coupleI invite you to take my 45-Day Jump-Start your Love Life Challenge and have an active dating life by Valentines Day!

Only 10 Days left to register for The Challenge, and limited spots available (10 total)! First Day of ‘class’ is Tuesday, January 5th at 7:30pm-8:30pm PST This is a fun, convenient & affordable alternative to my one-on-one private coaching (worth well over $1,200!) that will prepare you for your perfect Soulmate from the inside-out and significantly accelerate the dating process. Finally… grab the bull by the horns and take control of your life and love life this year! Break through those roadblocks and overcome those issues that have been keeping you “stuck” once and for all and let THIS be the year that you finally get the LOVE (and life) you really want! Achieve those goals and make those personal changes that you know you need to make  that will make the difference in your life and love life! No more excuses – get it right this year. Make it HAPPEN. Participate in my exclusive 45-Day Jump-Start your Love Life Challenge – and have a date by Valentines Day!

  • Start the new year off right with a dramatically improved YOU and an active dating & love life!
  • Jump-start your search for your Soulmate & hop on the “Express Train” – you will greatly accelerate the dating process!
  • Create an achievable Vision and measurable goals for yourself, your life and your love life that inspire and motivate you and create a specific action plans for making them HAPPEN!
  • Be in a Relationship or at least have an active dating life by Valentines Day!

Here’s what we’ll do during this exciting 45-Day Challenge:

  • Break through all your limiting beliefs, self-sabotaging patterns and unconscious blocks that have been keeping you where you are and eliminate them for good!
  • Discover your personal “Love Strategies” and relationship patterns that have been preventing YOU from dating and successful in finding your Soulmate – and replace them with more effective and healthier strategies!
  • Conquer low self-esteem at it’s core & replace it with through-the-roof confidence & Empowerment!
  • Uncover the patterns behind your seemingly random partner choices and relationship behavior – and what they mean for your future. Discover how to find potential partners that are compatible and highly aligned with who you are and what you want.
  • Take the detailed Relationship Readiness Test to see how ready you truly are to attract you Soul-mate.
  • Prepare your body, mind, heart, spirit, and home for the arrival of your perfect life partner – learn the specific steps to accelerate the process! This is truly eye-opening.
  • Discover your Non-negotiable Relationship Requirements; Not knowing these is the #1 reason why people stay single & have failed relationships!
  • Develop your own personal Relationship Attraction Plan” and Dating Strategy and begin executing immediately to rapidly manifest your perfect Match. You will quickly fill your schedule with a consistent stream of quality options and dates.
  • Discover the problems with the way that most singles date today that keep them single and learn new strategies that will be much more effective in today’s altered dating landscape.
  • Learn the 14 Dating Traps & mistakes that can sabotage your dating success and keep you single, so you can avoid them for good!
  • Realign your Energy & Shift your Mindset so you’ll be able to attract & manifest that ‘WOW’ love and Soulmate you’ve been waiting for!
  • Assess your current Romantic Market Value – and develop and enhance it to maximize your options of quality dating partners
  • Develop and Enhance your Attraction & Flirting Skills
  • You will know how Attraction really works for both men & women,
    How to build it, Enhance it, and Sustain it as well as What kills it. Learn how to successfully flirt and create instant chemistry and attraction from the initial interaction; How to ‘hook’ them and keep them intrigued and attracted in-between each date so want more and more of you!

  • Develop and Enhance your Dating Skills
  • Discover WHERE to Meet QUALITY potential partners and especially the specific type of men/women YOU’RE looking for, When to go & What to do to meet and attract them (and especially…your Soulmate!)
  • How to build dating and meeting new men into your schedule and lifestyle easily and naturally and make the process enjoyable.
  • How to Act & What to do ON Dates AND In-between Dates in order to succeed with men and keep them attracted, intrigued and thinking about you
  • Develop & Enhance your Relationship Skills
  • You will learn how to effectively choose the right partners who are compatible for you and quickly spot and weed out the wrong men, how to test for compatibility as well as for warning signs & ‘Red Flags.’
  • You’ll learn the secrets and skills necessary to develop and
    maintain a successful, healthy, passionate relationship and sustain attraction, excitement, love and commitment over time.
  • Master your Online Dating Skills, Revamp your Profile, and learn how to navigate the online dating scene masterfully so you can dramatically pump up your results and maximize the attention and dates you get
    • ALL of the above in 6 Weekly, 1-hour convenient phone Coaching sessions comprised of myself and 10 other attendees, all in your same boat! You’ll find tremendous value in having a built-in support group to learn from and share experiences with in a fun, safe environment. Plus, you’ll enjoy learning right in the comfort of your own home (While you sip a glass of good wine.:) Sign up now for the Challenge and make THIS the year you’ll finally get what you want! I dare you!
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    When you enroll in “The Challenge,” you will also get these other valuable bonuses:

    • BONUS #1: Every sesson will be recorded!
      This means that if you miss a session, you can simply download it and review what was covered. Plus you’ll get the benefit of getting to listen to it again anytime you want so you can keep your memory fresh.  Making this a great program for people who have a busy lifestyle.
    • BONUS #2: Relationship Readiness Assessment Tool ($29 value) A detailed and comprehensive assessment, the same one that I give to my private clients, covering over 50 questions in 10 different key areas in your life to determine your actual level of readiness for a real, committed relationship.
    • BONUS #3: The Relationship Attraction Plan Workbook ($97 value) This is a very thorough workbook filled with valuable reading material, lessons, strategies and exercises straight from my 90-Day Love-Attraction Coaching Plan that will enable you to have amazing results and execute your own personal Relationship Attraction Plan. This is the same workbook, lessons and exercises that I use with my private clients.

    • BONUS #4: Recorded Hypnosis Sessions MP3s to help you maximize your results! I utilize the powers of Hypnosis with my one-on-one clients to help them create amazing transformations in their personal lives, love lives and careers, and dramatically boost their motivation and productivity, allowing them to more effectively follow through and execute their Relationship Attraction Plan and achieve their goals and results they set out for. I’ve pre-recorded several of these invigorating sessions, valued at $167 each, and will be giving them to you FREE as my gift to you and as yet another tool to help ensure you get the results you came here for!
    • BONUS #5: 6 Weeks of Ongoing Email Support from me and an Online Student Support Forum ($125)! I’m on hand to support you and answer your questions along the way and you will also have access to a private ‘Virtual Classroom,’ where you can talk to and connect with the other students, share experiences, wins and challenges along the way, get and give feedback and support from other students who are in your same boat, motivate each other and hold each other accountable to your progress!


    Requirement from You: In order to participate in the Challenge, each student is required to make at least 1 Blog Entry a week along the way in the section dedicated to the 45-Day Challenge. You can write a post with a status update, or to share an accomplishment, a challenge, an epiphany, or whatever you want. Your updates will inspire and motivate other people out there who are going through the same journey! You may use a nickname if you don’t want to use your real name.
    zangelThe 45-Day Challenge Start Date: Tuesday, January 5th, 2010 at 7:30pm-8:30pm PST (or 10:30pm EST) From New Years to Valentines Day!

    Your Investment: Only 3 Payments of only $125.00 per person! (or 1 payment of $349) That’s over 6 weeks of customized work and Coaching, 6 weeks of support and accountability, and hundreds of dollars worth in bonuses and course material, workbooks and worksheets, exercises, and more!   You would be paying over $149 an hour ($894) plus additional fees for the workbooks and Hypnosis CDs if you signed up for private coaching, so take advantage of this amazingly low price of the Challenge.

    Simply pay only $125 now to reserve your spot in this exciting 45-Day Challenge (either your Credit Card or Paypal account (payment button below) – and you’re IN! Next payment isn’t due until January 16th. Secure your spot and receive your confirmation, you do not want to miss out on this. Only 8 Spots Left out of 10! Please Email me if you have any questions about the Teleclass or enrolling.

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    See Calendar for next upcoming Teleseminars & Classes



    Break through all your limiting beliefs, self-sabotaging patterns and unconscious blocks that have been keeping you where you are and eliminate them for good!

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    5 Sales Principles to use for Dating Success!

    5 Sales Principles to use for Greater Dating Success! By DeAnna Lorraine

    Sales, Marketing & Dating are actually very much alike. Here are 5 of the many valuable principles you can use to yield greater success in your dating life!

    1. The First & most essential step in Sales: Doing your ‘Market Research:’ Who’s your ideal prospect? You need to identify who’s your ideal romantic prospect too, or else you’ll always just be shooting in the dark and continuously dating the wrong people!
    1. Creating a concrete Business & Marketing Plan – if you fail to plan, then you plan to fail. You absolutely need to have a plan or else you’ll never get there! So when finding a relationship – you’ve got to have a ‘Romantic Marketing Plan’ (contact me if you want help in creating this). It outlines where you need to go to meet your ideal romantic prospects, when you’ll go, what you need to do to attract them, and so on. This will save you a lot of time & mistakes, believe me.
    1. Knowing your own “Market Value,” & finding ways to increase it. For dating, it’s knowing your own “Romantic Market Value,” and working on continuously increasing it so you can attract a better partner.
    1. Believing in your Product. If you don’t believe in your product, aka YOU, then you certainly cannot sell it! It is imperative to your dating success that you develop a strong inner confidence, because that is the foundation.
    1. Having the right Energy & Confidence to Sell the Product. You’ve got to exude that magnetic energy in order to persuade someone to buy, or in our case, date, you!


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    Tune into DeAnna’s Radio Show Today at 4:30!

    Tune into my Talk Radio Show today (every Thursday) at 4:30-5:15pm, The Dating Coach Confessional, on Blog Talk Radio. Today we’ll have on special guest Dr. Stephanie Houseman, who authored the book Rings Around the Collar,” discussing what happens when successful, White-Collar women date & marry blue-collar men! Are there power struggles that result? Resentment when the woman is Breadwinner? I can’t wait to here this one, I know it’ll be interesting. I want to hear your two cents too so don’t be shy.

    Tune in and be entertained, or better yet, I always encourage you to CALL in and add your two cents, rants or raves about the special guest or topic at hand, or ask a question for either of us about anything we’ve been talking about, or anything dating, love, sex, romance related at all a la Loveline. Hold back nothing, we love to hear you stir up the pot! This is the “Confessional,” what happens there stays there. Tune in by listening to the show here (click on the logo): Then bookmark it.


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    Single Mom; Do I have a Shot at Online Dating?

    Dear DeAnna,

    I am 31 years old and single, currently working full time and working on my bachelor’s degree. I also have two little girls, 5 & 7. I feel like I have to settle for less considering my current parenting and education situation, and my self esteem is rock bottom due to a very bad 5 year relationship. Do I have a shot at the online dating route? And if so, how should I approach it to reflect my life in a positive manner?

    -Marcia

    Dear Marcia,

    Yes, you definately have a shot at online dating! But you need to first ensure that your life is ready in all the areas necessary to accept a good, healthy relationship, and that your confidence & identity is built up high enough to attract romantic prospects and your life partner. And it sounds like you may need some personal work to do on yourself & your life before you can really start attracting good people and experiencing dating success. As for online dating, one piece of advice is that you should keep your profile very upbeat and positive and avoid leaking any past relationship or emotional baggage onto it as well as on your dates with new people. No need to put it all out there right away!
    I’d love to help you get to a place where you’re back on top, confident and positioned from the inside out to meet and attract a good partner for yourself (without her settling for less), and then give you the skills necessary to be successful with her dating & online dating endeavors. Let me know if you’d like to set up a free exploratory phone session to hear more.
    Good Luck,
    DeAnna
    Dear DeAnna,
    Why do I feel like I keep dating the wrong men? They seem so great and there’s so much chemistry and attraction, so I don’t understand why after a while we stop getting along and they are wrong for me! But then again, it’s hard to let them go because I’m so attracted to them. Help!
    -Cindy; 41
    Dear Cindy,
    If this has happened more than once or twice, then it isn’t merely a coincidence or accident that these people are wrong for you. You are more than likely choosing these partners by using “attraction” as your main guide, which is a mistake. That feeling of ‘attraction,’ though it feels good and is helpful in leading us to certain people, cannot necessarily distinguish between people who are ‘good’ or ‘compatible’ with us on a deeper level, and those who are not, which is why we find ourselves often attracted to people who are wrong for us or realize later they weren’t right for us. But “attraction” was put there primarily for the purpose of leading us to certain people that could allow us to have sex and reproduce. Many people go through their whole lives choosing partners based solely on attraction. And often it doesn’t work. That’s because we have evolved into more complicated, sophisticated human beings who want more specific things & qualities out of a life partner than just sex and attraction, so we can’t make our relationship choices based solely on feelings of ‘attraction’ and ‘chemistry’ anymore. We can’t interpret just a strong feeling of ‘attraction’ to someone as a sign that the relationship is a good choice or is ‘meant to be.’ If we want to find a partner that’s truly compatible with us and that stands a high chance of lasting for the long run, we need to make sure to use logic along with emotion when dating and choosing partners, and think more with our heads rather than that just strong feelings.
    Hope that helps,
    DeAnna


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    TONITE Attract your Soulmate with Feng Shui! Peter Reiss

    Attract more love & catapult your dating life by “Feng Shui-ing” yourself & your home! Don’t miss the show TONIGHT, (Thursday 3/5 at 4:30-5:15pm on my Blog Talk Radio show). I’ll have special Guest Peter Reiss, author of FENG SHUI 101, on to share his incredible insight into how your home, bedroom, car, etc. can literally either attract, or repel, love & success–along with his & my expert tips to make you a love magnet!

    LINK to enter show (or click on BTR widget below): http://www.blogtalkradio.com/DeAnna-the-Date-Dr

    Call-in #: (646) 716-9631 from your phone or just press the “Click to Call” or “Click to Listen” button from your computer once you enter the show. Show will be archived here and in this section of my site.




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    Watch DeAnna on San Diego Living Wed. 3/04!

    Watch The San Diego Living Show (Channel 6), Wed. March 4th at 9:00am to hear DeAnna talk about the dramatic “Bachelor” breakup that just occurred & talk about the Top 10 Warning Signs Ladies should look out for that indicate that he’s really “just not that into you” & a breakup is coming soon! Outch. (See these tips in the DeAnna’s Dating Advice section). And for more specific insight into WHY he dumped, lost interest or wouldn’t commit to you, download my new e-book “Why He Dumped, Lost Interest or Wouldn’t Commit to you,” available now on the Products, Books & DVDs page! This week download it for only $10

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    Download my new e-Book today Ladies!

    Download my new e-book Today! “Why he Dumped, Lost Interest, or Wouldn’t Commit.” Find out the to 10 reasons why men toss some women in the “replaceable” bin & lose interest in you, why he really broke up with you, and why they fall hard for some girls and not others! Plus inside tips on how to never be “that girl” who gets dumped or passed along again, and always that woman that men want to chase & date! Most appropriate for ages 21-60. Download it today for only $10!

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    DeAnna Lorraine the Dating Coach