Didn’t your parents ever tell you that when you go over to a guest’s house, you stay just long enough where they enjoy you
as a guest, but not overstaying your welcome?

Take that advice into your situations with women too. Don’t be the guy that lingers too long. Always leave on a HIGH note!

So when you’re in a bar and you buy that girl a drink, or you and your friends buy their friends drinks, great!

You’re the cool, friendly guy that bought them drinks. Now, stay long enough to get a few laughs in, get their names, stay a few more
minutes, then get her/their numbers, and LEAVE!

Don’t hang around and linger and latch on to their conversations. (ESPECIALLY if you’re just by yourself – which you shouldn’t do anyway
but more on that topic later)

Don’t go to the next bar with her/them or stick around trying to make jokes.
You have THINGS to do and PLACES to go, You’re a BUSY guy. There’s nothing more annoying to a girl then when a guy or two
comes over to their group and keeps hanging around.

But so many guys do it, that it’s more rare when a guy doesn’t, so they take note of it. When you approach a girl or buy her a drink,
talk her up for a few minutes, then tell her you’ve got to be going but you wanted to get her number first,” and then you actually LEAVE,
she’ll wonder what else you’ve got going on; it makes you more interesting.

Aside from bars or situations when you’re approaching girls, you also want to leave on a high note on dates and if you’re invited
back to her house.
Don’t hang around all night, and don’t hang around hoping to get lucky; even if she hasn’t directly told you that “it’s time
to leave.” Most girls actually won’t outright tell you that, they’ll just hope you’ll get the hint.

A lot of guys make that fatal mistake here, and just keep hanging around thinking “why leave if we’re having a great time still?”

But you want to leave at the peak of your great time, you never want to wait till the conversations or mood starts dying down,
or when she has to tell you it’s time to go home.

You want to beat her to it and have her be dissappointed when you leave, wishing you were staying longer rather than relieved
that you’re finally leaving and getting sick of you.
When in doubt, always leave her wanting more and leave on a HIGH NOTE!

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DeAnna Lorraine