Don’t Miss DeAnna’s Radio Show this Thursday!

Tune into my Talk Radio Show this Thursday (and every Thursday) at 4:30-5:30pm PST, Cutting Edge Dating, on Blog Talk Radio. Today we’ll have special guest and host of“Cheaters” Joey Greco. As the host of the nationally syndicated reality show “Cheaters”® since 2002, Joey Greco helps Cheaters® clients cope with infidelity in their relationships. Greco’s stern but soothing on-camera style has helped numerous individuals deal with heartbreak from unfaithfulness and find closure from meaningless or abusive relationships.

Tune in to the radio show or better yet, CALL in (646) 716-9631 and add your two cents, rants or raves about the special guest or topic at hand, or ask a question for either of us about anything we’ve been talking about. Don’t be shy & Hold back nothing, we love to hear you stir up the pot! Tune in by listening to the show here (click on the logo below): Then bookmark it!

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Need Fast Advice? NEW “Dating Coach On-Call!”

New Service: “Dating Coach On-Call!” Plan (only $100!)

Don’t you ever wish you could just have a dating expert on-hand to call up when you need to and talk about your dating situation or dilemmas with, to go over the nuances of a stressful date with, someone who you don’t have to worry about bothering (like you do with friends), who will just LISTEN, give you great feedback and tell you just what you need to do to solve the problem right then? How about someone you can call to analyze why he/she isn’t calling you, whether he/she is really into you or not, how to get him/her to fall for you, and so on? Are you not ready for my one-on-one coaching, but you want advice and answers and strategies?

Then my Dating Coach On-Call Plan is perfect for you!  Here’s what you’ll get and how it works:

• Rather than paying between $300 and $600 a month like full clients, you’ll just pay a flat rate of only $100.00 a month!
• With that you’ll get a full 100 minutes of Coaching a month with me, to be used however and whenever you want & need! Whether it’s to get advice before a big date, or you’re freaking out because you’re prospect hasn’t called in days and you want to know what’s up, or you want to devise a strategy for landing the prospect you have your eye on, you will be so thankful you have a personal Dating Coach on your speed-dial, and there will be MANY opportunities you’ll want to use your minutes each month, trust me!
• You’ll ALSO receive my How to Double your Dating & Find Love Fast workbook!
• You’ll also get instant access to my exclusive Private Client Center, which has lots of helpful reading material, articles and resources, valuable assessments, tools and exercises that I give to my monthly coaching clients such as the “8 Core Areas of Dating & Relationship Success” Assessment tool, the Dating Goals & Vision Forecast &  Passion Test
• There is no monthly contract and you can decide to opt out at any time. And Should you decide you want to upgrade at any time to a fuller coaching package, you’ll receive a generous 10% off your first month! You will also get special discounts on other services like Style & Image Consulting, Hypnotherapy, Online Dating Profile Review, and Teleseminars.

Purchase your Dating Coach On-Call NOW & Start using it immediately! (After you make your purchase either via Credit Card or Paypal, you will receive a Welcome email with the details of your plan which will also show you how to get started using it)

Contact me if you have any questions about Dating Coach On-Call

(866) 922-1188

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Take Your Relationship to the Next Level (New!)

by Jay Cataldo, Special Guest Expert of the Week!

Sometimes, the only thing worse than being single is being trapped in a go-nowhere relationship. If the frustration is mounting because your man still hasn’t popped the question, then keep reading….. because I’m about to share with you one of my best tips for enticing a man to sweep you off your feet and carry you right to the altar. (The following article is an excerpt from my free report “Operation Engagement” which you can download HERE)

While it’s totally acceptable for a woman to say to her partner something like, “Sometimes I just don’t feel that you truly value and appreciate me,” it’s difficult for most men to express the same sentiment, since they may consider discussing their feelings to be “girly” or unmanly.

But just because your man may be embarrassed to fully express himself doesn’t mean he isn’t starved for praise and appreciation – especially from the woman he loves.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Just as little girls enjoy pretending to be queens and princesses, almost every man on the planet has had fantasies of ruling over an imaginary kingdom. And just like how you may still occasionally fantasize about being seduced by a real-life prince charming, the desire to pick up a sword and take his rightful place on the throne is still churning beneath the surface in every man.

Here’s where it gets interesting… if you have the ability to make your man feel like a king, you’ll be rewarded with an all-access pass to the deepest recesses of his heart. In fact, this is one of the most powerful seduction techniques of all time used by the world’s greatest seductresses to flat-out mesmerize the opposite sex.

A good friend of mine has mastered this technique, and from doing just this alone, she has received marriage proposals from her last four boyfriends: an investment banker, a partner in an accounting firm, a doctor and a self-made millionaire who lives in a castle (yes, a real castle). And when asked about her secret, she just replies, “All I do is make my boyfriends feel like they’re the king of the world.”

One of the reasons this technique is so devastatingly powerful is because it plays to the hidden dreams and desires that all men have had inside of them since childhood. But another reason is the fact that it’s so incredibly rare to come across a woman who knows how to make a man feel this way!

This is a big one, so I’ll say it again:

If you know how to make a man feel like a king, you’ll easily set yourself apart from the crowd.

You’d be surprised, but I can count on one hand the amount of girls I’ve dated who knew how to do this, and I’ve had plenty of women in my life. However, once you master this skill, you’ll be able to make your man feel so incredibly amazing that he’ll literally become addicted to the good feelings that your presence will bring him.

At this point, no matter how many tanned, toned beach bunnies compete to steal him away, you’ll have nothing to worry about since a man will always choose the woman who makes him feel the way he wants to feel, regardless of her physical beauty or social status. This is an easy way to keep him interested in you over the long haul.

Now please keep in mind that there’s an art to doing this, which goes beyond serving a man his favorite beer in a 48oz goblet and throwing rose petals down at his feet. However, it’s not rocket science either, and with a little instruction and a bit of practice, you can easily unleash the sexy siren inside of you.

I recommend that you get in the habit of praising your man in three key areas:

1. His accomplishments
2. The way he makes you feel
3. His sexual performance

Just this simple step alone will bring so much happiness and good energy to your relationship that you’ll be amazed by the results. To make this even more effective, please keep the following pointers in mind: praise often, but not too often… and never let it become predictable or seem contrived. You should also mean what you say and be sure to put emotion behind your words.

Note: It’s a good idea to hold off on going full steam ahead with this strategy until you’re in a serious relationship, since you could end up scaring off a guy you’re just casually dating.

That’s all for now. Get out there and make it happen.

-Jay Cataldo

Jay Cataldo is a New York life coach and relationship book author who was recently ranked the #1 life coach on Twitter.com. Jay splits his time between his coaching practice and his latest project: DefinitiveDiva.com – a multi-faceted resource which offers expert advice for women in the areas of dating, relationships, business, beauty, health, fitness and more. Jay is known for his top notch tips on how to save a relationship, as well as getting quick and lasting results for his clients all around the world (via webcam).

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10 Ways to make a ‘Magnetic’ First Impression

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10 Easy Ways to Make a Magnetic First Date Impression

These are based on heavy research of my own as well as proven characteristics of personal “Magnetism” and Attraction! There are obviously many more components that go into a positive first impression, but here are my top 10.

The Greeting: Be on time! You’d be amazed how much punctuality really does affect first impressions. Have a Firm handshake! How is yours? Is it like a cold fish? Girls: avoid the “prissy princess” handshake, which exudes entitlement.

Men: When you greet her at the start of your date, give her a hug and kiss her on the check; this opens the door right from the get-go and sets the precedent for later.

Ladies: Reach over to his door and unlock his door. He will be highly impressed by this courteous and rare move.

Seating: If you’re a guy, you want to sit across from her, facing the people in the restaraunt so she is obligated to sit facing you, away from the clientele and staff of the restaurant. You want your date’s attention on YOU, not the waiter. And if you can control it, sit at a 90 degree right angle. Research has shown that his seating arrangement generates the most attraction and rapport.

Men: Pay Attention to the Details, your Surroundings, and Her Body Language. Pick up on cues and Take the Lead. For instance, if you notice that there’s no water on the table yet and it’s been a few minutes, seek out the waiter. If the waiter seems to have forgotten about you, If you’re both antsy for another glass of wine and it’s she hasn’t come by for a refill, take charge and handle the situation. Most often men either aren’t observant enough to notice when these things happen, or they will notice but won’t do anything about it; then us women are left feelings uncomfortable going up and fending for ourselves because we are trying to look demure, and so we sit there annoyed and thinking how much of a wuss our date is.

Be Conscious of Eye Contact: Make good eye-contact. Look into your date’s eyes about 70% of the time, and look away about 30% (about every 7 seconds or so you glance to the side).  Never looking away is creepy, but the longer your eye contact, the more self-esteem & confidence you are perceived to have.

Pacing & Matching: “Match” your date’s mannerisms and voice tone. Speak at their pace and volume level. Matching another person’s body language and speech has been proven to build tremendous instant rapport and attraction!

Men: Project your voice and show decisiveness. Lead her (making the moves for when to order, what to order, whether to order a bottle of wine or a glass, whether to have dessert or not, etc.) Show a Genuine Focus on the Other. Actively encourage others to talk about themselves, and respond genuinely — without bringing it back to yourself. Avoid monopolizing the conversation.

Use Positivity & certainty in your language and phrases, not negativity and doubt. Use phrases like “Absolutely” and “Definitely” and “Yes” vs. “Maybe,” or  “Probably,” or  “I think so.” This is perceived to exude much more confidence and esteem.

Look at your date’s pupil size to determine level of Attraction: Enlarged pupils indicate a high-level of attraction; small pupils typically indicate indifference or dislike. This is one of the most accurate indicators of interest, so use it to your advantage.

Leave at the Peak of Interest. Don’t wait for conversation to get stale or till you run out of things to say. Make your exit on a high note and your date will be “crying out for more.”

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Don’t Miss DeAnna’s Radio Show this Thursday!

Tune into my Talk Radio Show this Thursday (and every Thursday) at 4:30-5:15pm PST, The Dating Coach Confessional, on Blog Talk Radio. Today we’ll have on special guest Jentana Dabs, a self-proclaimed Sexy Success Expert for Women in Business, who helps women overcome the challenge of building a solo business practice while keeping them from being solo in relationships. She will be discussing How a Gutsy Gal In Business Gets and still keep your Guy, as well as The Biggest Turn-offs & Mistakes Women in Business make While Dating!

Tune in or better yet, CALL in and add your two cents, rants or raves about the special guest or topic at hand, or ask a question for either of us about anything we’ve been talking about. Don’t be shy & Hold back nothing, we love to hear you stir up the pot! Tune in by listening to the show here (click on the logo): Then bookmark it!

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Why Working with me will Transform your Love Life!

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Another Reason why I’m the Best Dating Coach there is?

If you’re looking to accelerate your dating life or dramatically enhance your love life, achieve remarkable confidence and success with the opposite sex, and attract and manifest your Soulmate (or at the very least a consistent flow of quality, potential partners and dates), signing up with me is an absolute must. When we work together you will make profound changes easily and quickly in just 1-3 months (and with me it’s always fun as well). My expansive knowledge and unique, comprehensive approach includes the most effective, cutting-edge strategies and tools to help you achieve success that you won’t find with any other dating coach, including NLP (Neuro-Lingistic Programming) Hypnosis & Hypnotherapy, TIME Techniques ™, EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), Success Coaching, and Breakthrough Coaching to allow you to make those profound changes and reach your goals with the greatest success and the shortest amount of time possible. Traditional Therapy is quickly becoming a dated practice as more and more intelligent people are choosing to see an NLP Practioner, who understands the inner workings of the mind and uses tools and techniques to permanently eliminate problems and unconscious blocks at their root in a fraction of the time it would take a Therapist. (Read more about my Coaching plans HERE) Sign up for a Free Consultation for more info!

Hypnosis and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) are powerful, proven methods for self-improvement and achieving excellence, as well as for overcoming fears and roadblocks, increasing confidence, and enriching the quality of your life and relationships. Used by the world’s top Life and Success Coaches including Anthony Robbins and John Assaraf, you will get to enjoy the same amazing results they bring to their clients since the techniques are built into my unique coaching plans.  While most Dating Coaches work with you just on high-level dating & relationship goals or give you just a canned dating strategy, I am the only Dating Coach out there that is trained and certified in all these other additional cutting-edge areas and offering you such a holistic, all-inclusive approach to improving yourself and your love life.

This is especially so important because there are many other elements (8 core elements in fact) that DIRECTLY influence the success of your dating & relationships, aside from just the dating & attraction skill area, and EVERY area needs be maximized in order to attract your Life Partner/Soulmate and to achieve real success with dating and the opposite sex. Just working on the surface layer, which is what most Dating Coaches and self-help books do, may be a ‘quick fix’ for some but isn’t going to create permanent changes and results. It’s kind of like a band-aid. But when you work with me, with my comprehensive, inside-out approach we eliminate any issues, negative patterns & problems at their root, we build TRUE attractiveness and confidence, and solidify your “Inner Game” and personal magnetism at the core level. We also often include additional secondary goals to target in your overall plan that result in a powerful ripple affect in your dating success, such as most commonly: Weight Loss/Fitness Goals, Enhancing Confidence & Self-Image, Quitting Smoking, Career or Financial Goals. Imagine the sheer happiness and success you’ll have when everything is your life is in place and at its very best!

Those issues listed above happen to be the most COMMON blocks that weigh down peoples’ confidence and hold them back from dating success. Do you ever say things to yourself like: “Well I just need to lose 10 pounds, and THEN I’ll start focusing on dating,” or “I just want to be at my ideal weight, and THEN I’ll feel confident (Approaching women)/(Putting my profile up Online)/(Going to singles events)…bla bla bla.” Or “I just need to get to this certain place in my career, and THEN I’ll start (focusing on dating)(attracting more women/men) (finally be content)…? Any of those sound familiar to you??

Well simply put, those are all well-intended yet common excuses; Excuses for not changing! They are hiding in your subconscious, holding you back, keeping you in your comfortable, familiar ’safe zone.’

Well let me ask you…. What’s going to be any different THIS time?

Take CONTROL of the outcome of your love life now and don’t spend another day being held back by your unconscious blocks and limiting beliefs.  We will BREAK through them in as little as 1-3 sessions WHILE we’re simultaneously making huge headway toward attracting your Life Partner. Integrating Hypnosis & NLP techniques into my coaching plans dramatically improves and accelerates the results you’ll get with me and the process of attracting your ideal relationship. Breakthroughs, major shifts and life-lasting behavior change often occurs in just 1 session.  The following is a brief list of additional goals that I can help you reach, either on your own (ask me about Hypnosis packages) or as an addition to date coaching while we’re simultaneously working toward your ultimate dating or relationship goals. All of the following issues/goals take just 1-3 Sessions to resolve/achieve in most cases:

• Attract your Soulmate: Elimate your Blocks, Realign your Energy & Shift your Mindset to Attract & Manifest your Soulmate
• Enhance Self-Confidence: Eliminate limiting beliefs & insecurities, Enhance confidence, self-image & energy you project
• Enhance Assertiveness: Communicate with confidence, enjoy greater respect & better relationships
• Weight Loss: Eliminate cravings, Reprogram your outlook towards food and exercise & Lose weight quickly
• Smoking Cessation: Painlessly Break the addiction & Quit smoking.
• Improve Memory & Concentration Sharpen our Memory and concentration
• Improve Work Productivity End procrastination, enhance motivation & focus
• Overcome Anxiety & Nervousness Hypnosis is a proven method for overcoming anxiety.
• Improve Salesmanship Hypnosis is very effective for enhancing your sales power, confidence & results
• Relieve Pain Quickly relieve pains and ailments that are weighing you down

SPECIAL Hypnosis Sessions/Packages:

• 1 (60-75 minute) a la carte Hypnosis or NLP Session: $140
• Package of 3 (60-75 minute) Hypnosis and/or NLP Sessions: $375
• Package of 3 Hypnosis/NLP Sessions + 2 (60-minute) Date Coaching Sessions: $550

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More about Hypnosis & NLP:

• Hypnosis is a recognized form of treatment; and there are many amazing benefits of hypnosis which is why millions of people all over the world have successfully used this form of treatment. Hypnosis and hypnotherapy is completely safe and highly effective in making powerful, positive changes in your life.
• NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) focuses on the inner workings of the mind and our language patterns to eliminate negative and destructive patterns and uses tools and techniques to allow you to consistently achieve your desired results and state. Changes and transformations are lasting and are made at a fraction of the time it would take a traditional Therapist, and most clients find NLP processes to actually be highly enjoyable and quite fun.

How is NLP different to other therapies?

NLP’s approach is that we essentially create our problems and therefore can uncreate them just as easily, when using tools that work with the Unconscious Mind. As NLP and Hypnosis are excellent for working at this level, they are the most powerful for creating quick, long lasting change. Traditional “Talking” Therapies tend to take a very long time and frequently do not get to the root cause of problems and if they do, rarely clear them out and remove the problem as they work mostly with the conscious mind. NLP, Hypnosis and Life Coaching works toward fast change and results.

Is NLP and/or Hypnosis just ‘positive thinking?’

NO! Some people’s pre-conception of these tools is that they just use creative visualisation, affirmation and quick fixes that don’t last – like covering up problems with a plaster but not solving the problem itself. THIS IS UNTRUE. NLP & Hypnosis actually shift the thinking at the unconscious level, not just the conscious. This means that change work lasts for ever.

Is NLP or Hypnosis “manipulative?”

These tools were designed to implement positive outcomes and that is the way that I, and every other practioner (and ideally in general) are using them. Of course, as with all powerful tools, they can be used with or without integrity, but the tool itself is never the one manipulating, it is the one using it. Integrity is very important to me.

Contact me if you have any other questions or to set up your first session! 1(866) 922-1188

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Tune into DeAnna’s Radio Show Today @ 4:30pm!

Tune into my Talk Radio Show today (every Thursday) at 4:30-5:15pm, The Dating Coach Confessional, on Blog Talk Radio. Today we’ll have on special guest Dr. Stephanie Houseman, who authored the book “Rings Around the Collar,” discussing what happens when successful, White-Collar women date & marry blue-collar men! Are there power struggles that result? Resentment when the woman is Breadwinner? I can’t wait for this one.

Tune in or better yet, CALL in and add your two cents, rants or raves about the special guest or topic at hand, or ask a question for either of us about anything we’ve been talking about. Don’t be shy & Hold back nothing, we love to hear you stir up the pot! Tune in by listening to the show here (click on the logo): Then bookmark it!

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FREE Dating Teleseminars every Mon. Night!

“Secrets of Personal Magnetism & Irresistible Attraction!” Learn secrets of attraction & personal magnetism, and how to make excellent first impressions that will enhance your success in Business, Life & Love! Every other Monday night from 8-9pm! (PST) To join in the call, dial into the Bridgeline #:

“Applying the Law of Attraction to Attract Love & Success!”
Valuable strategies for understanding how it’s present in our lives & how to make it work for us and use it to attract our life partner, success & wealth. Q & A too. Every other Monday night (alternating with the other seminar) from 8-9pm (PST) To join in the call, dial into the Bridgeline #:

Other Teleseminars Currently Offered:

How to Unlock your Inner “Alpha Male” (Men Only) for Irresistible Attraction

How to Unleash your Inner “Man Magnet” (Women Only)for Irresistible Attraction

Submit the form below to request info about any of my seminars or to request upcoming dates & registration info so you don’t miss them!

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