Take Your Relationship to the Next Level (New!)

by Jay Cataldo, Special Guest Expert of the Week!

Sometimes, the only thing worse than being single is being trapped in a go-nowhere relationship. If the frustration is mounting because your man still hasn’t popped the question, then keep reading….. because I’m about to share with you one of my best tips for enticing a man to sweep you off your feet and carry you right to the altar. (The following article is an excerpt from my free report “Operation Engagement” which you can download HERE)

While it’s totally acceptable for a woman to say to her partner something like, “Sometimes I just don’t feel that you truly value and appreciate me,” it’s difficult for most men to express the same sentiment, since they may consider discussing their feelings to be “girly” or unmanly.

But just because your man may be embarrassed to fully express himself doesn’t mean he isn’t starved for praise and appreciation – especially from the woman he loves.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Just as little girls enjoy pretending to be queens and princesses, almost every man on the planet has had fantasies of ruling over an imaginary kingdom. And just like how you may still occasionally fantasize about being seduced by a real-life prince charming, the desire to pick up a sword and take his rightful place on the throne is still churning beneath the surface in every man.

Here’s where it gets interesting… if you have the ability to make your man feel like a king, you’ll be rewarded with an all-access pass to the deepest recesses of his heart. In fact, this is one of the most powerful seduction techniques of all time used by the world’s greatest seductresses to flat-out mesmerize the opposite sex.

A good friend of mine has mastered this technique, and from doing just this alone, she has received marriage proposals from her last four boyfriends: an investment banker, a partner in an accounting firm, a doctor and a self-made millionaire who lives in a castle (yes, a real castle). And when asked about her secret, she just replies, “All I do is make my boyfriends feel like they’re the king of the world.”

One of the reasons this technique is so devastatingly powerful is because it plays to the hidden dreams and desires that all men have had inside of them since childhood. But another reason is the fact that it’s so incredibly rare to come across a woman who knows how to make a man feel this way!

This is a big one, so I’ll say it again:

If you know how to make a man feel like a king, you’ll easily set yourself apart from the crowd.

You’d be surprised, but I can count on one hand the amount of girls I’ve dated who knew how to do this, and I’ve had plenty of women in my life. However, once you master this skill, you’ll be able to make your man feel so incredibly amazing that he’ll literally become addicted to the good feelings that your presence will bring him.

At this point, no matter how many tanned, toned beach bunnies compete to steal him away, you’ll have nothing to worry about since a man will always choose the woman who makes him feel the way he wants to feel, regardless of her physical beauty or social status. This is an easy way to keep him interested in you over the long haul.

Now please keep in mind that there’s an art to doing this, which goes beyond serving a man his favorite beer in a 48oz goblet and throwing rose petals down at his feet. However, it’s not rocket science either, and with a little instruction and a bit of practice, you can easily unleash the sexy siren inside of you.

I recommend that you get in the habit of praising your man in three key areas:

1. His accomplishments
2. The way he makes you feel
3. His sexual performance

Just this simple step alone will bring so much happiness and good energy to your relationship that you’ll be amazed by the results. To make this even more effective, please keep the following pointers in mind: praise often, but not too often… and never let it become predictable or seem contrived. You should also mean what you say and be sure to put emotion behind your words.

Note: It’s a good idea to hold off on going full steam ahead with this strategy until you’re in a serious relationship, since you could end up scaring off a guy you’re just casually dating.

That’s all for now. Get out there and make it happen.

-Jay Cataldo

Jay Cataldo is a New York life coach and relationship book author who was recently ranked the #1 life coach on Twitter.com. Jay splits his time between his coaching practice and his latest project: DefinitiveDiva.com – a multi-faceted resource which offers expert advice for women in the areas of dating, relationships, business, beauty, health, fitness and more. Jay is known for his top notch tips on how to save a relationship, as well as getting quick and lasting results for his clients all around the world (via webcam).

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