See what’s happening TONIGHT on DeAnna’s Radio Show!

TONIGHT on DeAnna’s own Talk Radio Show:

Tune in Dating Diva DeAnna Lorraine (ME) and her quick-witted male Co-Host, San Diego’s own TV & Radio celeb Carlos Kremer (of Kremer Insurance, San Diego) TONIGHT at 7-8pm PST on Hook up with DeAnna Lorraine! We will also have special guest, Relationship Expert and bonafide COUGAR Expert Lucia, who wrote the book Lucia’s Lessons in Love and has her own radio, The Art of Love! (http://www.TheArtofLove.net ) Listen & watch live as they delve into some juicy dating, relationship & sex-related topics, answer sticky caller & client questions, and solve dating your dating, love, sex & relationship dilemmas live. To WATCH the show streaming live from in the studio, go to http://www.SDOnlineradio.com/ and watch from 7-8p

CALL-In with all your Dating, Love, & Sex related QUESTIONS and dilemmas, at any time during the show! Call toll-free at: (646) 716-9631 11 (646) 7167-9631 (646) 716-9631

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DeAnna’s Video Blog: Master your First Date Impression

August 11th Video Blog… Looking forward to my “Date” tonight, so I can polish this client’s 1st date impression and give her the confidence  to walk into every date in the future knowing it will be a success! If you have any questions about my Mock Date service or would like to schedule one with me, please send me an email at: Deanna@DeannaLorraine.com or Give me a call at: (866) 922-1166

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New VIDEO: Keep Persisting, the Success is right after the Breakdown

This video is a message to you about the importance of Perseverance and Persistence… Especially in times of breakdowns and misfortunes. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and you will succeed if you just persist a little bit more, and work through the obstacles.

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How I would Coach The Bachelorette’s Men!

Here’s what I would say to the 2 Gentlemen runners-up on The Bachelorette… If I were their Coach!

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New Video: My Thoughts on the Bachelorette Final 4 Men

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Casting People for my new Dating Internet TV Episodes! Free Coaching

Guess What? I am currently filming a series of TV episodes, or ‘Webisodes’ since they will be online, for my new online TV & Radio Show! We are looking to cast people to be in the episodes with me through various segments covering different dating, attraction & relationship-related topics..

For the episode that we are ‘casting’ for this FRIDAY, July 9th, it will be a “1st Date Do’s & Don’ts” segment, and we are especialy looking for a COUPLE, between the ages of 21-50, (or, if you are an individual man or an individual woman, you can also choose to be casted for this and we will set you up with another single of the opposite sex for the scene.) The scene we are going to be shooting is a mock ‘1st date’ at a restaraunt or bar, with the dating coach simply pointing to certain things on your date, such as body language, communication, clothing, and other nuances that go on during a typical date, and will be explaining certain ‘Dating Do’s & Donts’. This will be very easy and fun for the couple (or the two individuals pretending to be on a date) who are casted for it. Plus, free drinks and appetizers will be provided for the couple who does the scene (it will be either in downtown San Diego or Pacific Beach, exact location TBD). The date scene will only take about 1 hour, to an hour-and-half max to film. The segment itself after editing will only be about 5-10 mins in length.You can choose to use your real names or be anonymous.

We are also looking to cast people to be in some of the other “How-To” episodes, as she instructs the participants on how to do certain things relating to dating and attraction. As a participant, you will get free live training, of which is normally worth at least $500+. We are looking for about 3-5 women and 3-5 men for these segments. The brief ‘How-To’ segments will be about 5-10 mins long each, will be fun and easy for the participants to film, and will be topics like:

• How to Successfully Approach Women
• How to Successfully Ask & Get a Woman’s phone # and set up The Date
• How to Successfully Make the 1st Move
• How to Escalate Sexual Attraction & Romantic Connection
• Texting & Calling in-between Dates, Do’s & Don’t’s
• Calling/Texting/Communication in-between dates
• What Girls Talk about When Men aren’t Around
• What We’re thinking before, and after, Sex and What Guys should Know
• Girl Talk’ with friends after date or after he meets them
• How to get Men to Approach you more & Ask you Out
• Wearing Fake Book inserts, record feedback & responses
• How to Feng Shui your Home & Bedroom to Attract more Love
• How to Make your Home and Bedroom Woman-Friendly & Man-Friendly

We will typically be filming every Friday, but can work around your schedule.
If you’re interested in hearing more about this or you’re ready to get started, please email the Reply To address, or: DatingCoachShow@gmail.com as soon as possible and we can get you set up with making a positive change in your life, or answer any questions you may have!

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More Bachelorette Dating Faux Pas: Episode 6!

The Bachelorette Recap in Dating Do’s & Dont’s!

Episode 6

1. Justin and his Two-Timing: Wow… I don’t even think the word “Tool” with a capitol “T” could sum up this poor excuse for a man. We discovered that he got on the show with a big scheme of going on the show purely for the purpose of “becoming famous,” and once he made it to the ‘top 3,’ he was planning on ditching Ali – and running off and marrying his girlfriend – yes, girlfriend, of two years! And then if that wasn’t bad enough…it turns out he has had another girlfriend too! Wow, this is karma at its greatest. Let this be a lesson to everyone that what goes around really does come around. And relationship karma, especially, is quite the bitch. Another lesson here: Women TALK. You never want to mess with a woman scorned. Women will do whatever it takes to make sure that no other woman will touch you with a 10-foot pole – and Ali made sure of this, by calling him out and giving it to him on national TV. Nice work Ali!

1. Craig’s Fun but “Friend”-ly Date: With Craig’s one-on-one date with Ali, they had a nice time and went to some romantic spots, and even watched a fireworks display from the rooftop of their boat cruise. Everything was set up to BE romantic… Yet … there was no actual sparks. Every time they shot Ali and Craig together, they were having pleasant conversations and he was making her laugh, often even putting his arms around her and holding her, but it seemed like every time he was about to go in for a kiss or when there was definitely an opportunity to… he chickened out and gave her a cheek hug instead. Whether it was nerves or lack of confidence or know-how, he didn’t just execute, didn’t just GO in for it. And when guys just stick in that PG zone of putting their arm around you, hugging you and holding you, but never just confidently put the romantic moves on and kick it up a notch, guess what… She’s going to only think of you as a kind of guy she could hug and laugh with, but not kiss. Thus… into the Friend Zone you get placed. So it was no surprise to me that out of all the guys remaining, Ali chose to let Craig go in the rose ceremony; and her reason? “The romance is just not there.” And her words, were the romantic kiss of death… “He’s a great guy. He’s so funny, so sweet…” Words that you don’t want to hear as a man!

1. Roberto’s Ever-Comforting Moves: When Ali stormed into the men’s hotel suite fuming and in tears (I literally thought I saw traces of steam coming out of her ears), calling out Justin to the group, Roberto offered great support by putting his big strong arms around her and comforting her, letting her know that “It’s Okay, everything’s going to be fine.”  You could tell she seemed to calm down a bit after that and she appreciated the comforting touch. Lesson learned here: ALL women appreciate that! Props to Roberto again, for seizing an opportunity to act like the Man and show her that he can be her rock. The other guys just sat there in stupor. But who is she going to remember most in the situation? The guy who made her feel safe and supported. Men, grab as many opportunities as possible to show a woman that you can BE there for her, and she will feel safe and good around you… and you WILL end up being there for her, in the end.

1. Frank  Lugging his Rug: As Frank and Ali were shopping around in the Bazarre in Turkey, they found themselves in a little rug store and got cornered by an aggressive Turkish man trying to sell him a rug. Frank kept on repeating over and over again to the camera that he wasn’t going to buy this rug, that he had no need for a rug, and there was no way he was going to carry that around for the rest of the date. …But alas, the next scene that follows shows poor Frank walking away carrying this 10-foot rug on his shoulders. Note to men – don’t get suckered into something that you don’t want to do or buy in front of your girl. We’ll begin to wonder where your backbone is. On the flip side though, Frank did do a great job in his date of being lots of fun and high-energy, upbeat, and spontaneous. He always held her close and kissed her a lot, grabbed her hand tight and led her through the crowds, and treated her like she was already his girlfriend, which is what helps a woman actually associate you with being her boyfriend and what will likely pull him ahead of the competition.

1. Ali’s Fighting Faux Pas: On the group date with the 6 guys, after the poor guys had already spent the whole day on their feet touring historical sites of Istanbul, Ali informed them that she was taking them to a ‘Big Surprise.’ And as it turned out… this “big surprise” was a group of 6 oiled and shirtless Turkish men, or, professional “Olive-Oil Wrestlers,” waiting to oil-wrestle the guys, on the ground in the freezing cold. Talk about a buzz-kill! Then after the guys got crushed by these professional men who were no match for them, she announced that they now had to fight – each other! I’m sorry, but that just wasn’t a very cool girl move, I don’t care who you are. It’s enough that these men have to fight for her and woo her every day on national television, and jump through hoops for her every episode, but then to have to physically fight for her after a long day of sightseeing and then fight their own buddies, who they’ve grown to be their comrades? I thought that was a little cruel and unusual. If you give men enough of a prize, they will fight for you anyway and will want to do it on their own merit, but if you force a guy to fight for you, that may very likely only create resentment in him and have the opposite effect. Boo.

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Would you like the Chance to get Free Coaching from Me?

Would you like the opportunity to get free Dating, Relationship, or Life Coaching from me?

This may be your chance! I am currently filming a series of short TV episodes, or ‘Webisodes,’ since they will be online, for my new online TV & Radio Show, Hook Up! with DeAnna Lorraine - Hooking you up with the Love of your Life, or a Life that you’ll Love! We are currently looking for people to be in some of the episodes with me covering different dating, attraction, life & relationship-related topics. You will get to be my client, and will have FREE coaching sessions with me (normally worth several hundred dollars an hour), in exchange for parts of the session being recorded. You may choose to have either standard coaching sessions, and/or Hypnosis or NLP sessions, of which you know I also do. Basically, it will the same as if you were a paying client of mine, and you will get the same coaching and support, except for parts of the session will be recorded. But, I will make it easy for you to forget there’s a small camera in the corner of the room, and you also may choose to be anonymous if you prefer. If you’re looking to find love and succeed in your love life, or if you’re having a major roadblock, challenge or issue in any area relating to your dating or love life, your relationship, your career, or your life in general, and you would like to get free help and coaching an issue in your life, this is an awesome opportunity for you, and I will only be offering this for a limited time or until the limited spots are filled. You will get top-quality coaching from me, for free. Don’t delay.

We are especially looking for people who would like help with one or more of the following areas, or would be willing to get free coaching in one of the following:

• Helping you Find a Relationship
• Helping you more successfully Attract the Opposite Sex & Get lots more dates!
• Weight-Loss (Hypnosis is extremely effective at helping you lose weight successfully)
• Depression, Anxiety or Negative emotions
• Having a Breakthrough in your Career or ‘making the leap’
• Enhancing your Confidence
• Enhancing your Motivation & Productivity
• Developing more Sex-Appeal & Overall Attractiveness and ‘Inner Game’
• Resolving your Relationship Issues
• Having a major Breakthrough in your Relationship, love life, or any other major life area
• Helping you get over your Ex & move on Successfully
• Give you a Make-over
• Teaching you about Body Language, and breaking down your own 1st Impression, How you Come across, and what you can do to improve it so it’s perfect

We are also looking for people to be in some of the fun and brief ‘How-To’ episodes, as I instructs the participants on how to do certain things. As a participant, you will get free live training from me and possibly other expert Dating Coaches, of which is normally worth hundreds of dollars.

The brief training segments will be about 5-10 mins long each, and will include topics like:

• How to Successfully Approach Women; Make the 1st Move; Ask & Get a Woman’s phone # and set up The Date
• How to Escalate Sexual Attraction & Romantic Connection
• Calling/Texting/Communication in-between dates
• What Girls Talk about When Men aren’t Around
• What Women thinking before, and after, Sex and What Guys should Know
• How to get Men to Approach you more & Ask you Out
• How to Feng Shui your Home & Bedroom to Attract more Love; Make your Home/Bedroom Woman-Friendly & Man-Friendly

We will typically be filming every Friday, but can work around your schedule. The training sessions will be fun & positive!

If you’re interested in hearing more about this or you’re ready to get started, please either fill out the CONTACT form below, or send an email to: DatingCoachShow@gmail.com (they both go to the same place) as soon as possible and we can get you set up with making a positive change in your life, or answer any questions you may have! Take advantage of the opportunity to learn first-hand from me,or change your life!

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10 Ways to Enhance your Romance… With YOURSELF!

10 Ways to Enhance the Romance… With Yourself! (See article below)

By: ME!

In the hustle and bustle of today’s world we live in, with our Blackberries and I-Phones going off 24/7, emails flooding through, people stealing our attention and overload of information, Internet distractions, and celebrity gossip, we can get lost in all the mayhem of our lives, and as a result, lose touch with ourselves. But when you lose touch with yourself, you lose touch with your energy, and the very essence of you, the very thing that makes you attractive to other people, to the opposite sex, and to the things that you WANT in your life. You lose your personal magnetism.

You must keep that flame within YOURSELF hot and burning, always; you need to maintain your connection with yourself. You may think that the most important thing in this world is your connection with other people, and with your partner or the opposite sex, but let me tell you, in order to have that strong and beautiful connection with another… You first MUST have that strong, healthy and beautiful connection with your SELF. That comes first and foremost. And, you should know that those people with the highest level of self-awareness and self-love, are also the ones who are most successful with attracting the opposite sex and have the best, more amazing and lasting romantic relationships.

So, you NEED to make it a priority to take time out of your busy life and CONNECT with yourself. Make IT A HIGH priority. I promise you, doing this regularly and consistently you will see a dramatic improvement in the overall quality of your life and level of happiness, a lift in your confidence, and your love life will begin to thrive.

10 Ways to Enhance the Romance… With Yourself!

1. 1. Make a nightly date with yourself. Yes, make a “date” with yourself, on either a nightly, or a minimum of a weekly, basis; schedule it into your planner, and honor it every time, treating it like you would a date with another person. And don’t flake on yourself! This is a priority. You will see the cumulative affect over time.

1. 2.   Turn OFF the TV & Turn off your phone or put it on silent – Treat it just like a real date! Think about how much time you eat up during the day – while driving in your car, while walking to someplace, or in line waiting for something, etc. – and talking on your phone to someone. Your inner self is screaming for some alone time, yet you’re always preoccupied with other people and things, and eating any potential alone time by gabbing away on your cell or answering emails. So when it’s your date with yourself, give yourself the respect it deserves and turn off all distractions, so you can really be present and focus on yourself. This may take some getting used to for you busy-bees and workaholics, but avoid the temptations to turn on distractions and simply be alone with yourself and your thoughts. You will come to enjoy it and this alone time will give you some much-needed clarity and focus.

1. 3.   Slip on something sexy & intimate. Put on something that feels good. Whether it be lingerie, or a silk slip or a cozy bathrobe. The more pleasing it is on the skin and the eyes, the better for your mood. When you put on something that makes you feel good and feel sexy, even when you’re by yourself, you will feel a shift in your mood and you will feel more beautiful, more powerful and more confident from the inside out.

1. 4.    Set the Mood – Yes, just like you would (or should!) a date with the opposite sex, it’s important to also set the mood for being with yourself. It will help you to quiet down and relax, and connect with your intimate, spiritual self. Some great ways that I recommend setting the mood are the following:

• • Light candles – Put some scented votive candles around your room (I have a bunch that I spread out on my windowsill, dressers, and nightstand).
  • Music! Put on a favorite song or music mix. I usually alternate between softer meditation music or light trance/European house music, depending on my mood or the mood I want to get in. I really like Karunesh.
  • Choose a favorite fragrance, scented candle and/or incense. Use the same fragrance for every date. Let this be your signature fragrance and the signal to your mind that this fragrance means it’s “Me” time, and it’s time to reconnect with yourself. Some great fragrances I recommend are Lavender or Vanilla, which are known for their relaxation abilities and smell delicious too.

1. 5. Pamper yourself:  Soak in a stimulating Bath – Draw yourself a beautiful hot bath. And just allow yourself to actually relax in it and literally soak it up. Put your watch away. Put a candle or two by the bathtub and have the music on. For an extra stimulating bath, I also recommend getting fizzy scented bath salts, oils or “bath bombs.” Putting these in your bath will make for an even more decadent experience! (Recommendation: Try one of these delicious & invigorating Bath Bombs, from Lux Naturals, my favorite place for all things bath and body – http://www.luxnaturals.com/bath-and-body.html Then after your bath, rub in one of their sumptuous home-made body butter bars as it melts into your skin. Mmmmm…)

1. 6.       Read: Reading helps quiet your mind and relax you. While I recommend reading a self-improvement or personal growth book, a romance novel or some good poetry or magazine will be fine as well.

1. 7.      Treat Yourself… Indulge a little. Eat something appealing to the senses, and if you can cook it, that’s all the better as cooking can be very therapeutic. But if you’re not into cooking, you can just get take-out. Either way, treat yourself to something that makes you happy to eat, and has a lot of flavor, like seafood pasta or sushi, frozen yogurt, vanilla ice cream, dark chocolate, chocolate-covered strawberries, or other fruit. The following are some recommendations of foods that actually physically make you feel better and happier and elevate your mood: eating fish especially such as sushi or salmon, will physically make you feel better:

• • Deep-sea Fish, such as Salmon: Deep-sea fish contain ample amounts of Omega-3 Fatty acids, which have a plethora of health benefits and elevate your mood.
  • Real Dark Chocolate (best to get is 75% or more pure dark chocolate, not the commercialized ‘dark’ chocolate).  Dark chocolate helps release dopamine and endorphins in your brain, which are those natural feel-good chemicals and natural painkillers!
  • A glass of Champagne or wine, preferably red wine. Red Wine is an especially rich source of Antioxidants and also releases dopamine. Woohoo.

1. 8.      Love yourself…Admire yourself…Make a list of at least 3 things you find sexy or beautiful about yourself. Write it down. Put it somewhere that you’ll see it like your dresser mirror. Compliment yourself!

1. 9.      Respect yourself… Make a list of at least 3 things that you respect yourself for, or that you are proud of yourself for doing in this past week. It’s good to be continuously impressed with your own self and in admiration of yourself. The more you respect yourself and take time to appreciate and admire yourself, the more good things will keep coming to you and the more successful you’ll be in life.

1. 10. Tap into your Inner Creativity – Being near water, especially moving water, stimulates creativity and ideas to flow. This is why drawing a bath is important, or sitting next to an ocean or lake, or even simulating the effect by purchasing one of those small plug-in waterfalls that you can put in your room and turn on when it’s time. You can buy these for about $10 at many drug stores or Target. With that creativity and this inner peace that you’re generating on your date, use it. Take a pen and write something, write a song or write a poem or short story. Draw or paint something. Create something or design something. Here are some suggestions of things to do that will help stimulate your creativity and tap into your inner creativity and desires, and manifest them!

1. Write out your Top 10 biggest goals for this year for you, in detail. Be specific and paint a descriptive picture of what the end-result of the goal will look and feel like to you.

1. Create a Vision Board. Get out a large white board or piece of paper, and go through magazines, newspapers, or online, and cut out all those things that represent your goals and where you want to ne in a given area. For instance, cut out pictures of $100 bills, of a beach in Tahiti, a couple kissing, the car that you’re dreaming of, it. Paste them onto your Vision Board in a way that feels good and inspires you to attain them, then put the Vision Board somewhere where you can see. You can always keep coming back to it and add to it and modify it.

1. Create positive affirmations for yourself, and say them out loud. It is a truth that what we tell ourselves, we believe. By creating healthy, positive affirmations and doing a regular daily practice of repeating them, any old dialogue you have that’s negative or unhealthy will wane in its power and will be replaced by a much stronger, confident, competent, dialogue  that is receptive to attracting success! At least give it a try.

Alright…. Go have fun on your Date!

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More Bachelorette Dating Do’s & Dont’s!

The Bachelorette Recap in Dating Do’s & Don’ts!

This Week’s episode: June 21st

1. Frank and his “Non-Existent” Date: “On this date, When Frank was on his group date, he definitely took a back seat to all the other guys. He remained quiet, kind of a shadow in the wings, and wasn’t making himself known, asserting himself to make alone time with her or fighting for her like the other men in the scene. Ali even told Frank that she “doesn’t even see him”at all during their group dates and that he is actually “non-existent.” Wow – that is one word no guy should EVER want to be called on a date. Frank was trying to play it cool and relax, and but the fact is, this IS a competition and just like the real world of dating, there are always other guys vying for a woman’s attention and competing for her. Don’t ever think that you’re the only one, because especially if you’re pursuing an attractive female, she’s probably got other options. You never know how much harder another guy is pursuing her or how creative or aggressive he is about it. So, YOU need to be the one that gets her by making yourself stand out, and by being assertive about it and making things HAPPEN with her. Make yourself and your intentions known. Understand the definition of “pursue,” – and do that! The one that persistently – and creatively – pursues, is the one who gets the prize. (But note, I say, “persistently” and “creatively” pursue… not desperately

1. Ty’s great display of Alpha Male Manliness: On their “group date” with Ali, 8 of the men and Ali went horseback-riding in Iceland’s mountainous terrain. Ty went into the date saying, “I’m definitely planning on getting that rose.” And with that assertive attitude, with his sights set on his prize, his behavior followed, and he truly shined. He took the lead in the situation, being a sort of Cowboy himself, and helped her get all strapped in, helped her with her saddle, took the time to help out the other guys with theirs, and literally “took the reigns” the whole time. He stood out as the leader in this date because he simply grabbed the bull by the horns and handled everything, like a man should. He was caring, attentive, and always there to get her back or anyone else’s (including Chris L who fell off his horse), but without being smothering or needy mind you, just in a masculine, Alpha Male kind of way. Ali’s words epitomized how women feel when they’re around a real man like that who assumes the leadership role and “handles things like a man”: “I just like how he’s always caring for me and making sure I’m OK. I LOVE that.” Kudos Ty, for stepping up to the plate. Very sexy. Men, you can learn from this. When you’re attentive to a woman, you can notice opportunities left and right for you to take the lead or handle a situation and look like the man, and she’ll be putty in your hands.

1. Casey’s Continued Creepiness: OMG… Need I say more?? Mistake #1 – This guy got a TATTOO. Yes, he ran out and, after knowing Ali for less than a few weeks, got a tattoo that’s representative of her, the rose ceremony and the 11 bachelors that were left. Um, can we say, CRAZY? He got it to prove to Ali that he is “genuine” and “for real.” He said he wanted to “be the man of her dreams.” Well, there’s other ways to show that you’re genuine and for real – besides showing her you’re a nutcase. He literally is wearing his heart (tattoo) on his sleeve. The only thing he’s proving to her is emotional instability. Men…. Do not follow suit. This is no way to impress a woman. The only thing it’ll get you is a hefty bill for the tattoo removal when she dumps you. Mistake #2: And if that wasn’t bad enough, he continues to pour his heart out to Ali and profess his deep, intense, creepy feelings to her and singing an (off-key) song he made up for her…. Even AFTER she’s asked him to “take a step back.”  Is it any surprise that she ditched him at the end? Men can take a lesson from this freak – Less is more. Women like a challenge just like men do, and men who come on too strong too soon get put in the creepy/stalker category.  Unlike how many movies portray, the way to “prove” to a woman that you’re a great guy is not by being a sensitive basket-case pouring out your feelings to her & pulling desperate stunts, at least not in the beginning. Show some self-control and inner strength, and we’ll respect you much more for it.

1. Ali breaking the Golden Gushing Rule Again: Ali, girl, oops you did it again! Whenever she’s with the sexy Roberto, she has this terrible tendency to gush all over him, saturate him with compliments and feed his ego. Again, she broke the rule that we discussed last week. While spending some alone time with him, while staring up at him starry-eyed & insecure, she asked him, “If we weren’t on the show, would you ever even approach me? Would you date me?” Then she proceeded to telling him, “I don’t think I would ever approach you, because I would think that you’re too HOT for me!” Omg Ali, big no-no! She immediately devalued herself by saying this and lowered her own attraction. You telling someone that they are too hot for you is only going to make them believe the exact same thing – and look for someone they thing is ‘on their level,’ which, apparently isn’t YOU.  Tisk, tisk.

1. ALL the Guys – And their Lack of Touching: Whenever Ali was sitting on the couch with one of the guys, having alone time with them individually, none of them ever did any touching when next to her. Men can learn from this, because men (and women for that matter) in this position can greatly elevate the level of attraction a woman feels toward you simply by adding some mild touching in the situation. Lightly running your fingertips down her arm while she’s looking at you and talking, rubbing her shoulder a bit, putting your hand on hers or putting her hands on your thigh while talking; you want to get your date comfortable with your touch early on so gradually increased physical contact is welcomed and feels natural and good. The more frequently you touch her, the more she’ll see you as a romantic, sexual prospect and the more “sparks” your date will feel like you have. So take these opportunities, men. If one of these guys did this, he would definitely have increased his bond and connection with Ali.

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