Dating | Deanna Lorraine | Dating, Relationship & Life Coach

5 Major things in your Life that can be Blocking you from Attracting a Relationship

1. Your Friends: Do you have any friends that are single and bitter toward the opposite sex? Are they toxic to be around, and express their negativity about finding a relationship when they’re around you? Or do they dress sloppy, act embarrassing, or otherwise not represent you well when you’re out with them?

2. Your Career: Is your career your #1 priority, and it takes up too much of your time? Are you always working, or even using your work as an excuse to not go out and date and meet people?

3. Your Home & Bedroom: Is your home and bedroom frequently messy and dirty? Is there lots of clutter & dust in them? Is your closet stuffed with clothes and clutter? If your Mr. or Ms. Right had the ability to observe your home and bedroom as it is right now...Would they be proud of what they would see, and would it be inviting for them? If you have no space in your bedroom and home for a person to come in, then a relationship can’t find its way to you!

4. Your Attitude: Do you have a negative or cynical attitude toward the dating process? Are you doubtful that you’re ever going to find your life partner? Are you feeling desperate and longing for a relationship (“Where is he already??”) This attitude needs to shift in order to magnetize love. You need to shift from feelings of wanting love to feelings of already having love. That’s what’s going to attract that experience.

5. Your Exes! Are you still physically or emotionally tangled up with your ex, or in and out of a relationship with him/her? Are you spending time with someone who you know is not The One for you, but just doing it to pass the time? This old energy is taking up space and blocking new love and energy to come in!

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DeAnna Lorraine is an internationally-recognized Dating Coach & dating expert.

6th Principle of Successful Dating: Be an Opportunity Magnet

This principle is one that once you fully apply, will help you gain massive results. The key is in becoming more aware of everything around you at all times – and aware of opportunities around you. Really one of the biggest differences between people who get tons of dates whenever they want and are successful in life, and those who barely get any dates or meet any new people and who experience little success in their lives, is not merely a matter of luck or fate or being born with a certain ability that others don’t have. It’s a simple thing that they all share in common – they have their eyes open, and they see opportunities.

These people see opportunities wherever they go, and because of that, they then attract more opportunities wherever they go, and they notice the opportunities when they are presented. And not only do they notice opportunities, but they act on them. They take opportunities when half the world doesn’t even notice them and the other half may see them but don’t do anything with them; they’ll just pass them by or waste them.

So is it any wonder then why these people are so successful, and the latter are not! They are opportunity magnets. And the more opportunities they see and act on, the more they naturally attract, and the more magnetic to them they become – and so the cycle continues.
YOU can easily turn yourself into an “Opportunity Magnet” as well. Anyone can; it’s not that difficult. It’s simply a new habit you can develop just like any other, of training yourself to be more aware, observant and perceptive wherever you are.

During my Date Coaching course, I help my clients gain this awareness and develop this habit, so they can spot out opportunities when they present themselves and attract more of them. Opportunities for love, money, and happiness are EVERYWHERE, but most of us are too darn busy and caught up in our own heads, or drifting off in trance and not paying attention to what’s going on around us. While we’re walking around town, driving to and from places, while we’re shopping for groceries, waiting in line, gabbing away on our cell phones… Most of us go through these routine daily activities on autopilot.

Then, we complain that there are “no good people to date” anywhere or resort to just going to singles events or finding people online, yet we don’t even notice the abundance of opportunities all around us. The grocery store; at the bank, at the gym, coffee shop, heck even in the car next to us that’s stopped at a red light.

You’ve got to get out of your bubble and notice when opportunities present themselves. Some may be in plain site, and some may be a matter of finding hidden opportunities in places or situations that you wouldn’t have guessed.

You’ll notice a difference immediately in your dating success after you begin applying this principle in your life.

To your Success!

~DeAnna

Deanna Lorraine is a San Diego Dating Coach.