Most women don’t know this, but there are also many things a woman can do to actually PRO-LONG the engagement, or cause the man to have second thoughts about her and break it off altogether!

Here are some of the most common pitfalls that can happen that can prolong an engagement:

• Too much, Too soon! Women who go full-force into professional “Wedding Planner” mode immediately after her man proposes. A lot of otherwise cool & level-headed women have a tendency to be so excited after getting the ring that they suddenly throw all these plans & ideas & wedding fantasies at their man, come home with armfuls of bridal magazines & drag him out everywhere to show off your ring and engagement like a kid in a candy store. But this can really freak a guy out and the change can be too sudden for him. Men need some time to ease into the different phases of a relationship and especially into the reality of the engagement, as well as recover from the monumental decision, stress and financial drain that he has just undergone with his proposal. If you don’t show your appreciation by giving him some time to rest, if you become too demanding & nutty at this point, the man may rethink his proposal.

• Attack of the “Bridezilla!” Formerly normal, “sane” women who suddenly turn into emotional Bridezillas after the man proposes. On a related note, women often don’t know how to manage all that pressure and stress of the planning process very well and will often start exhibiting very unattractive behaviors, like taking their stress out on their man, arguing and nagging him a lot, obsessing over the wedding date and all of the details, and letting the sex decline, which makes the man start re-thinking the wedding. He starts thinking, “Who is this wedding obsessed, Bridal-Magazine-reading woman and where is the girl I used to just have fun with on Friday night?” A lot of women unknowingly make a man feel like she is more focused on “getting the ring” and having the perfect wedding than on the man she is marrying and what the real purpose of the wedding is really about. Men start to feel like they were just duped into “filling a slot” in her master plan.

• Make Love, not War! Fights & Disagreements often break out over wedding details & expenses. They may disagree over everything from the reception venue to the color of the flowers to the cost of the caterer and other fees. This can cause a lot of tension between a couple leading up to the wedding and lead to serious doubts & cold feet, at a time where they should be excited and blissfully in love with each other.

• Money Money Money! We do live in some hard times right now, and a man’s career or financial situation can definitely be a cause for a hold-up. If a Man’s career is in a transitional stage, or if it is super hectic & time-consuming, then he may not want to have a wedding until things settle down some or get more stable for him. And if a man is experiencing some financial woes, as much as he may want to give his girl her dream wedding, every time she excitedly drops words like “caterer” or “flower arrangements” or “DJ” or “reception hall,” all he can hear are dollar signs going cha-ching! cha-ching! cha-cha-ching! $ off in his head. And that can be very daunting for a guy – enough to prolooong the wedding quite a bit.

• Incompatibilities: Couples may also discover incompatibilities & opposing values that they hadn’t known about before, such as one partner wanting children and the other partner realizing that they don’t, differing ideas about domestic roles, career goals, or money.

• Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties may also provoke a problem in the engagement! This is an issue that is often overlooked by the bride and groom-to-be, because it is so often seen as just a mandatory ritual before the wedding. But if gone about the wrong way, they could lead to a lot of hurt or arguing. In order to avoid any potential fights over these parties, just take my advice – make sure you both agree on the rules and boundaries of your individual parties, don’t lie about anything, keep it clean and classy and don’t do anything that could be remotely construed as cheating! Is it really worth it??

How long is normal & healthy to be engaged?

Normal healthy time to be engaged is about a year to a year-and-a-half. When you surpass a year and a half, the chances of the wedding actually happening goes down a bit, and when you surpass 2 years, the chances of a wedding actually happening tend to decrease pretty significantly!

If it’s a long engagement, why might the man be delaying the wedding or getting cold feet?

If it’s a long engagement, the guy is usually dragging his feet because deep down he is afraid of getting married, or he isn’t 100% sure about his fiance. A lot of guys get pressured into proposing, by his girl or his family or friends, or feel like they’ve been dating their girl so long that he “has to” propose to her for fear of losing her, but his heart wasn’t fully in it. Then proposing to her does buy him some more time, but then with the process of planning the wedding, etc. his doubts start creeping in again and he may drag out the engagement process a lot longer. A man may also be dragging his feet if his financial or job situation is a little shaky at the time, and he wants to be more financially stable before having the wedding.

My advice for taking an engagement that’s been dragging and getting your happy ending out of it?

In order to take an engagement that’s been dragging on to move forward toward your “happily ever after,” my advice is to set up a nice long relaxing dinner or an overnight getaway for just you and your man. Because of all the tension and pressure that’s been building up with the planning process, you and your man especially need a little break to just reconnect, have fun again and remember the real reason that the wedding is all about. If your man has been dragging it out, remind him of the wonderful and fun-loving girl that he proposed to.

So during your dinner and overnight, make sure you are laughing, connecting, and having a great time, and then together you should just knock out all the pending decisions that need to be made that’s been stalling the wedding process, and choose a date that works for both of you and that is going to add the last amount of stress to both of your lives. Be willing to make some compromises over the details or the date if you need to. Don’t leave the dinner or vacation until that spark is back and you’re both in great, loving spirits again. That way you can get back on the same page again and move forward with the process, feeling connected and passionate about going through with the wedding and having your happily ever after.

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Weekend Seminar Details

In this information-packed, 3-Day course, I’m going to show you the BEST ways to meet, date, and attract women, and especially, beautiful, intelligent, high-quality women. YOU will be the one that gets her!

You’re going to learn the secrets most men will never know about women and dating… but NEED to.

And you will learn it right from the source.

I’m the woman that’s going to give you that honest, MUST-KNOW inside information into the minds of women that you have been wanting for so long and the complete female perspective that you NEED in order to truly BECOME successful with women and UNDERSTAND them and CONNECT with them.

You’re going to learn how to ‘trigger’ attraction and chemistry with women, and sustain it over time

You’re going to ELIMINATE your fear of rejection, no matter how unsuccessful you’ve been in the past

You’re going to learn to eliminate your ‘Approach Anxiety’ with my easy & proven 5-Step Easy Approaching Strategy so you’ll be able to approach any woman, anywhere.

You will truly build your CONFIDENCE from the inside-out and develop a powerful, SEXY personal identity that women cannot resist.

You’re going to learn the most dangerous mistakes men make with women and dating that land them in the ‘Friend Zone.’

I’m going to show you how to masterfully FLIRT and how to use eye-contact and body language so that women RESPOND and WANT you

You’re going to walk away with Fool-proof methods of getting a woman’s number, starting and carrying on conversations with them, piquing their interest right away, getting called back, and securing dates with them.

You’re ALSO going to learn a special, specific set of strategies & skills for how to meet and pick up women in BARS & CLUBS… And we’re going to actually go out and practice it.

You’re going to learn how to stay OUT of the dreaded ‘Friend Zone’ for good and always land in the ‘Romance Zone.’

You will ‘Unleash’ your inner ‘Alpha Male’ and strengthen your Masculine presence and the traits women seek out in a man

I’m going to show you the BEST ways to meet, date, and attract women, no matter how beautiful she is or how many other guys are wanting her. YOU will be the one that gets her!

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VENUE: San Diego, CA

~ Seminar Agenda ~

Day 1: Friday: 4pm-7pm

“Mindset Shift Day”

Introduction & Overview of what’s to come for the weekend

Part I. Understanding WOMEN & The Female Mind: Women’s Psychology & Attraction 101

• Common Myths & Misconceptions about Women, and the REAL Facts

• The Fatal Dating Mistakes most men make that keep them in the “Friend Zone”

• What it is to be a “Real MAN” in the art of attracting quality women

• Adopting the Mindset of a truly Confident, Attractive, “Deliciously Date-able” Alpha Male

Day 2: Saturday: 10AM – 5PM

~ Refreshments & light Snacks included ~

Part II: Developing & Solidifying Total Core Confidence and “Inner Game”

• Together we will identify & overcome your Limiting Beliefs & “Blocks” within your “Inner Game” that have been preventing you from successfully attracting & dating women

• We will go over each of the critical components within your “Inner Game” and improve every area so that your Inner Game, Confidence, Self-Image is rock-solid and set up for you to be effortlessly attracting & dating the women that you want

Part III: Developing & Strengthening Your “Outer Game”

• Together we will identify & overcome your “Blocks” within your Physical, or “Outer Game” that have been preventing you from successfully attracting & dating women

• We will go over each of the critical components within your “Outer Game,” such as your Physical Appearance, Style & Wardrobe, Personality, Communication & Social Skills, Verbal & Non-Verbal Communication & Behaviors, Social Life, and more, and develop your entire “Package” so that you are making a powerful impression and women will instantly categorize you as a “High-Status,” Attractive, Sexy and Desirable guy that they want to sleep with and DATE! It’s all about the image that you are projecting to women, and that image will either have women instantly categorizing you as just a “Friend,” OR it will have women instantly perceiving you as a romantic and sexual interest. After we’ve improved all the major components in your “Outer Game,” you will forever change the way that women perceive you and respond to you; You will be that guy who always gets the girl and fires off their attraction triggers.
  

• We will strengthen your “Alpha Male” traits & Sexy Masculine Presence – another key shift that will allow you to attract women much more easily and effortlessly

Part IV: Mastering the APPROACH:

• Approach Mastery! Together we will have you overcoming your Approach Anxiety and eliminate any lingering fears you have about approaching, communicating with, and asking out women. You will learn my proven Approaching Strategies & easy Conversation Formulas that I teach in my private coaching programs, which will enable you to approach any woman, anytime, anywhere, and always know what to say to spark their attraction, ask them out, and get the dates! You will also be practicing these approaching & conversational strategies FIRST-HAND outside of the Seminar on Saturday NIGHT in our “Night-on-the-Town” outing, where I will personally take you guys out to some local hotspots in San Diego to help you apply everything you’ve learned and show you in action exactly how it’s done! This evening outing alone is priceless and well-worth the cost of the seminar, as the live training you’ll receive from me will help you integrate all these skills and rapidly accelerate your mastery of approaching.
  

**Saturday NIGHT: 9:30pm – Midnight: Night-on-the-Town Live Approach Training Session!

A “Field Training” Session where I will take you guys out on the town to some local Hotspots in San Diego where you will be practicing your approaching & conversational strategies FIRST-HAND in the ‘Real world.’ I will be your Wing-Girl for the night, helping you apply & practice everything you’ve learned in the areas of approaching & conversations and show you in action exactly how it’s done! This evening outing alone is priceless and well-worth the cost of the seminar, as the live training you’ll receive from me will help you integrate all these skills and rapidly accelerate your mastery of approaching.

Day 3: Sunday: 10AM – 5PM

~ Refreshments & light Snacks included ~

Part V:

• ADVANCED Approaching & Conversational Skills: We will discuss your experiences and feedback from our Night-on-the-Town, overcome common objections & obstacles to successfully approaching women, and learn additional strategies and techniques that will have you strengthening the success of your approaches, improving the quality of your conversations, and getting more Phone #s and Dates.
  

• Dating STRATEGY: You will create your personal “Dating Game Plan” which will include both online & offline strategies, methods and places for you to be easily meeting lots of women in your life and daily routine. Your Dating Game Plan will WHERE and HOW you will be meeting the kinds of women that are your type on a regular basis, and enable you to have a full “Pipeline” of women and dates!
  

Graduation

By 4pm on Sunday, You will officially be a Confident, Attractive, “Deliciously Date-able Man!

~ Tickets ~

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3-Day Weekend Workshop:

Reserve your Spot Now! Weekend Seminar $1,189.00 USD Payment Plan $649.00 USD

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