DeAnna Decodes Men & Women’s Secret VALENTINES Language!
Join the forum discussion on this post! - (1) Posts12 Hidden Truths about Valentine’s Day EXPOSED: Mens VS. Womens Valentine’s Experience!
By Dating Coach DeAnna Lorraine
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Want to know what women and men are REALLY thinking, wishing and wanting when it comes to the big day?? Since I “hear it all” from BOTH sexes, I’ve put together a handy survival guide that decodes common Valentine’s Day phrases and behaviors from girls and guys so you can really know what’s up this year and pass any hidden traps your with flying colors!
#1. It’s known to women as the ‘barometer’ of the relationship. Anything you do and say is a TEST and will reveal how you really feel about her and the relationship. Proceed cautiously and beware of danger traps!
#2. She’s secretly hoping that this is the time you will “prove” your true feelings to her. (Through grandiose romantic overtures, small black boxes with sparkly things inside, serenades and ridiculous displays of red roses.)
#3. It’s a major unspoken competition among women and their friends since the beginning of time – over who’s got the biggest rock, the prettiest roses, the most glamorous dinner, and most romantic (i.e. ‘generous’) boyfriend or husband. You’d better out-do Tony and Joe and make sure she WINS! If your girlfriend loses, YOU lose. And onto the sofa-bed you go.
(Side-note: She says, “Omigosh Sweetie, did you hear what Jessica’s boyfriend got her for Valentine’s?? How sweet!” = This is Code for: “Omigosh Sweetie, Did you see what you now have to do/buy for me so that I can do better than Jessica?? Listen up!”
#4. She’s looking at how you sign the card – “From?” “Love” or “Best”? “Yours Truly?” She IS waiting to rip the card open! Write wisely.
#5. She says, “Oh honey, whatever we do is fine. I’ll be happy with anything.” = A Trap! Don’t fall prey to this, oh naïve men.
Interpret as, “You’d better know me well enough to know exactly what I want and plan the most elaborate dinner and Valentine’s evening every or ELSE….” (“or else” = ‘rewards’ taken away.)
#6. All girls secretly want jewelry on Valentine’s Day– period.
All men secretly want sex on Valentine’s Day – period.
#7. Most women will hold off on dumping a guy till after Valentine’s Day so they can see can see what kind of a gift and dinner they get.
Most guys will dump a girl before Valentine’s Day so they won’t have to get them dinner or a gift.
#8. Sorry, Ladies. Your man isn’t making a mad dash to the flower shop to show you how much he cares. The real reason he just dropped $400 on a dozen roses is because he enjoys the comfort of his bed and has no desire to sleep on the couch. They do it because they’re SCARED of what’s going to happen to them if they DON’T.
#9. Woman receiving Jewelry = “He loves me. He cares!”
Man giving Jewelry = “I’m hoping I’ll get a 3-way tonight.”
#10. The more expensive and ridiculous the display of roses, teddy bears, or flowers, and the more people are around to see it, the happier she’ll be. She wants to show off the biggest thing possible to as many people as possible.
#11. Post-Valentine’s Day, Woman’s thoughts: “I wish Valentines Day was every day…”
Post-Valentine’s Day, Man’s thoughts: “I emptied my bank account on Valentine’s Day, and all I got was this lousy stuffed animal.”
And Truth #12… If you FORGET the V-day = Forget the V-Jay-Jay.
Share your Comments below!
![[Post to Twitter]](http://www.deannalorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/tweet-this/icons/tt-twitter-big2.png){kind=icon}
Tweet This Post! ![[Post to Digg]](http://www.deannalorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/tweet-this/icons/tt-digg-big4.png){kind=icon}
Digg This Post! ![[Post to StumbleUpon]](http://www.deannalorraine.com/wp-content/plugins/tweet-this/icons/tt-su-big4.png){kind=icon}
Stumble This Post!
Join the Valentines “Blog Crawl,” Feb. 8th – 14th!
Join the forum discussion on this post! - (1) PostsJoin me & other Dating Experts on a Valentine’s Day “Blog Crawl” Starting Monday, February 8th
Discover How to Celebrate Valentine’s Day Single-Style and Dating Tips to Find Love!
(February 6, 2010) Better than a bar crawl, the first ever Valentine’s Day “Blog Crawl” raises awareness (instead of money) for the positive aspects of celebrating Valentine’s Day as a single adult. While this holiday often causes single women everywhere to cringe, the Blog Crawl has been created to shift that reaction to a more upbeat outlook.
Beginning Monday, February 8th, guest bloggers from some of the Internet’s most popular sites, will be sharing their insights to help single women enjoy a day that is traditionally for couples, and offer advice for finding the love they want.
Unite with countless single readers to take in this virtual tour of the web’s best dating experts. Featured guest bloggers include:
Monday, 2/8: The Dating Goddess (www.DatingGoddess.com) who has one of the top-ranked dating advice sites and has published more than a dozen books about dating in the Adventures of Delicious Dating after 40 book series.
Tuesday, 2/9: Alyssa Johnson, MSW, LCSW, of www.RemarriageSuccess.com helps divorced parents move into new relationships and successful step families, and is the author of over 250 published articles and 4 books, with an active counseling practice.
Wednesday, 2/10: Laurie Davis is the founder of eFlirt Expert and co-host of the weekly web show, LoveNation. She helps singles market themselves to become successful daters, is the current NY Tech Dating Examiner and a contributing writer for The Guyds.
Thursday, 2/11: SingleMomSeeking.com is one of the best dating bloggers specializes in being a parent while looking for love (about.com Guide to Dating) and author of Single Mom Seeking: Play Dates, Blind Dates, and Other Dispatches from the Dating World.
Friday, 2/12: Terry Hernon MacDonald, expert dating blogger at www.HappyGirlMusing.com is the author of the hot selling ebook, How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams.
Saturday, 2/13: DeAnna Lorraine, innovative Dating and Relationship Coach and NLP Practitioner, helps clients transform their love life to succeed with the opposite sex at www.DeAnnaLorraine.com
Sunday, 2/14: Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, The Dating Coach has helped over 2,000 singles to successfully jump start or accelerate their search for love. She is also a speaker, workshop leader, author of MANifesting Mr. Right and founder of www.NeverTooLate.biz.
Guest bloggers have been selected for their specific expertise to inform, inspire, and motivate singles to enjoy what is normally the most dreaded retail holiday of the year. In addition, single women, whether divorced, widowed or never married can learn from the sage dating wisdom these experts share.
Ronnie Ann Ryan, creator of the Valentine’s Day Blog-a-thon said, “This is a ground-breaking opportunity for single women to rethink their reaction to Valentine’s Day and transform the holiday experience into something enjoyable and positive.”
Tweet This Post! Digg This Post! Stumble This Post!
Valentines Day: Pro or Anti? Share YOUR Views!
Join the forum discussion on this post! - (1) Posts
So Valentines Day is right around the corner and fast approaching…Obviously. “Love” is in the air… What are the general sentiments of everyone? Of course I’m doing lots of promotional stuff for Valentines Day, and there’s cards and teddy bears and enormous red heart-shaped boxes of chocolates and roses everywhere you look, but what’s the real meaning behind Valentines Day?
Is it just an excuse for Hallmark and other card and teddy bear distributors to make a crap-load of money and buy themselves new houses and vacations once a year? Is it really a holiday that brings two people closer, or does it actually create lots of unrealistically high expectations and disappointed girlfriends across the nation?
And what about single people, are they just supposed to be excluded from the whole holiday and made to feel depressed because they are spending it alone? Is Valentines Day out-dated on the whole? Well my thoughts are that Valentines Day is, for the most part, an out-dated Holiday that puts a lot of pressure on the person you are dating – but really, its mostly the guy with all the pressure, with women usually having all these preconceived all high hopes and expectations in her head of what she hopes her guy does, that he needs to live up to (yet he doesn’t even know what they are! And if he falls short, or his surprises were off-base, or if God forbid one of her girlfriends gets an even BETTER Valentines celebration from her man, then it all goes down the tubes and both parties are left disappointing, not closer.
On another note, there shouldn’t be just ONE day of the year where you appreciate and romance your partner – romance and appreciation should come every day of the year! And how much more exciting are roses or a surprise gift when you get them on a random day in the year, not just on the one day of the year that everyone is ’supposed’ to get them?
But on the other hand, if we were to do away with Valentines Day altogether… I might be a bit sad in all honesty. If the man I was dating told me he didn’t want to celebrate Valentines Day, I think I might miss those singing candy grams and chocolates and all that red and pink love-dovey stuff…. What do you think?
Ok, your turn: I want to hear YOUR thoughts, opinions, rants and/or Raves one way or the other of Valentines Day. And strong opinions always encouraged! 
And if you’re a total ‘Romance Rebel,’ tell me why. Also, anyone who does alternatives to Valentines Day, or celebrates it in a unique OR rebellious way, whether you’re single or in a relationship, share with us! Let’s get the discussion going!
POST your comments down BELOW!
Tweet This Post! Digg This Post! Stumble This Post!
Check out my Valentine’s Discounts & Gift Certificates!
Join the forum discussion on this post! - (1) PostsEmail or Call Now for more Info: 1(866) 922-1188
Happy Valentine’s Day! Whether you’re Single or Coupled this year, I’ve got the perfect gifts for you. Give Yourself or someone you care about the gift that will change your life this year.
FINALLY… Its time to grab the bull by the horns and take CONTROL of your life and love life this year. The year 2010 is The Year of the Tiger, which promises far reaching results for those that seize opportunities. So it’s time for you to make a change. Let THIS be the LAST Valentine’s Day you ever spend alone, and let THIS be the year that you finally live the life you want and get the amazing RELATIONSHIP that you’re ready for! As an added incentive for you to follow through with your goals, I’ve slashed prices and put together some amazing Valentine’s specials for you, so take advantage of them now before rates go back up.
Valentine’s Special #1: Invest in Yourself
Take a full $100 OFF my Men’s or Woman’s most popular & effective coaching plan, The 90-Day Love Attraction Coaching Plan! PLUS I will also throw in a FREE Online Dating Profile Review & Makeover (valued at $149+) plus Online Dating assistance, if you sign up between now and January 4th (Or until spots are taken – spots are limited and are going quickly. Rates will go back up to normal after February 16th). Start off the New Year by breaking through those roadblocks that have been hindering you, breaking OUT of your single rut and rapidly begin meeting and dating quality people that you want. This is the accelerated short-cut pass to the marriage alter (or if it’s just an active & successful dating life you’re after right now, then you’ll have your calendar full at a minimum) (Read more about the Men’s & Women’s 90-Day Plan HERE). Join the rest of my success stories and in just 3 months you will massively improve your desirability and enhance your confidence and attractiveness from the inside-out while also rapidly attracting your match. To take advantage of this special discount, submit the contact form at the bottom of this page right now while the offer still stands. Make THIS be the year that you do it right – and let me help you finally find the love that you’re ready for.
Valentine’s Gift Certificates
Get someone you care about the perfect gift this year that’s totally unique!
For Singles: Do you have a friend who is single and really wants to find love? Anyone who seems to be “stuck” and experiencing frustrations with dating, or recently coming out of a divorce or break-up? Or perhaps you know someone who really wants to get out of their rut, put their life on track and map out and achieve their goals? If so, they would love the gift of a Free Dating, Relationship or Life Coaching & Strategy Session! Give them the perfect gift that they will truly enjoy and benefit from, and one that will change their life. What a perfect way for them to kick off the New Year – let this year be the year that they make love happen!
The Dating, Relationship, or Life Coaching & Strategy Session includes:
- A 75-minute In-person or Phone Coaching Session with me, where we will discuss their current situation and explore their biggest dilemmas or problems they are having.
- Specify your option during check-out, between: Date Coaching, Relationship Coaching, or Life Coaching Session beforehand (or let the receiver decide!)
- Clarity on their issue(s)
- 100% honest and expert Feedback, Advice & Support
- Specific Strategies & Solutions for Improvement
- Plus your gift will also include a $100 Gift Certificate for my services for them so if they should want to work with me for additional sessions afterward, they can simply apply the credit towards it. So you are giving them numerous gifts in one!
- Purchase the Gift Certificate now for only $99.00! (Session valued normally at $169, price will go back up after FEB. 16th) Download certificate(s) immediately! OR choose to have it sent to you in a beautiful gift certificate and romantically wrapped packaging.
For Couples: Give your Lover or a Couple the perfect gift this year – the beautiful gift of renewing & enhancing your Relationship and spicing up your Romance with a gift certificate for a Romance Enhancement Session!
The Romance Enhancement Coaching Session includes:
- A full (Choose between 75-Minute and 90-Minute) Coaching Session with me to rejuvenate, spice up and strengthen your romance! Areas we will cover include:
- Re-ignite the Chemistry, Passion & Fun in your Relationship so it’s just like when you first fell in love!
- Learn new skills and activities to do with each other that will promote FUN and excitement, improved sexual intimacy, and enhanced attraction and desirability.
- Learn ways to challenge and stimulate each other mentally and physically, and restore playfulness, presence and passion.
- Leave the session feeling a new sense of excitement & attraction toward each other, and get ready for a new ‘Honeymoon’ phase!
Purchase the Gift Certificate for only $99.00 Now for 75-minute Session or $149 for 90-minute session (normally $179 and $249)! Download certificate(s) immediately! OR choose to have it sent to you in a beautiful gift certificate and romantically wrapped packaging!
Experience Massive romantic Success & Find your Life Partner this year
